Thursday, November 11, 2010

Ladies, when you go clubbing, do you grind with guys? Hook up?

Go all the way? Ultimately, SHOULD A GIRL CARRY A CONDOM IF SHE’S PARTYING EVEN IF SHE HAS NO INTENTION OF HOOKING UP?



I ask here because relationships is filled with nimrods, and my gf is realy into style and looking good, so maybe somebody here can relate.



I used to go out to the clubs, and often enough we hooked up with girls on girls nights out that we knew had or most likely had boyfreinds - or more (as in, my freind hooked up with a chick with a ring). it wasn't that they were disatisfied, but we showed them some excitement and sometimes it paid off. those were crazier days for me - and i don't live like that anymore - but there were certainly guys who were way better at scoring than i was. worst part, it was sometimes - but not always - EASY with ordinary not slutty girls. once you got them having fun with you and turned on with talk and dancing, the deal often went down.



So now its like I have too much information for my own good.



Now, I have a gf that goes out with her freinds about once a month, often dancing at a club. I trust her and everything, but we hardly have sex like we used to, and she drinks a little, and i think she's hot enough to draw a player's attention once in a while. my freind and i were remarking - it sure would be better if they had protection. i mean, isn't there a certain likelihood it would happen and we'd never know? and isn't it better to not find out than to find out through an std?



So I was thinking of asking if she carried one, and suggest that she do carry one “just in case on of her freinds needs” – but I don't know how that'll go over. Do you think it would make it more likely? Ultimately, how as a guy do you accept that anything is possible - even the girl you trust getting boinked by a guy and you never knowing?Ladies, when you go clubbing, do you grind with guys? Hook up?
This is why I would only date women committed to the same standards of sex only with husband or wife after marriage. You can get STDs even with protection. The reasons for my standards though are spiritual- sanctity of our God given human bodies.

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