I'm having such a hard decision whether or not to go to this party!?!?!?!?

There is a crazy dance coming up this Saturday. I am a freshman in High School. This is the first time I have gone to a dance sponsored by these people (It is a non-school dance so there are no rules). I am what you would call a good girl. My friends who have gone say people get drunk and have sex in the middle of the dance floor! Since I am a good girl I don't know what to wear, all of my friends are dressing like sluts. I have no breasts (sorry i had to say it) so one friend said to get a push up bra and come to her house so she can make me look like a slut before the dance! Then other people were saying I will pay you if you hook up with some guy, or are you going to grind any guys? I don't know how to grind! I even know people who plan to get drunk! At a place like that it is easy to make bad decisions and it just doesn't sound like me! I don't want to flake out on my plans, or else my friends will hate me and tease me for it! I NEED HELP PLEEEEEEASE! Thanks to anyone who answers!I'm having such a hard decision whether or not to go to this party!?!?!?!?
Don't go! It will end up being a HUGE mistake that you will regret. When you grow up you will learn that if friends are going to tease for doing the right thing, they are not good friends and you shouldn't hang out with them. And if it helps, tell them your parents grounded you and won't let you out of the house and they are going to keep an eye on you to make sure you don't sneak out. But the party will end up being a bust anyway, because most of the time those kind of parties make you uncomfortable and are not even fun. They ALWAYS end in disaster.I'm having such a hard decision whether or not to go to this party!?!?!?!?
Don't go to the party way too many things could happen that you will regret later on. Your young right now, wait until your a little older before you get drunk and do shameful things.
I agree with the first comment.



DON'T GO! Use your common sense and better judgement. Your friends don't sound like friends, either. Ditch them; there are nicer people in the world.

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.';friends'; might tease you.Stay away from this drunken orgy.Which is no more than a sexual party put together by some smart guys.You can guarantee some lewd photos will be taken and displayed on the net,So let your griends laugh.She who laughs last,laughs loudest
if ur friends would make fun of u for flakin out then they rnt good friends and their just tryin to get u to do watever they want u to do....................so if u really dont think its the right thing for u to do than just dont do it and let them make fun of u cause they want u to be just like them............ ur not their slave and u dont have to do wat everyone tells u to if u dont like wat ur bein told to do.... if its not u than just dont do it...if they make fun of u cause u left em alone at that dance who freakin cares.... its only because they r tryin to act alll tough in front of everybody u kno includin the guys... if they continue to make fun of u thats their problem not yours..... if they continue to make fun of u just remember...u were smart enough not to do wat wasnt right...........if they talk to u rudely about u not goin than u just tell em that........... i guaruntee ur sexier and sweeter than them and there r good guys out there for u but all their gonna get is sex partners if thats wat they really.. want..if they continue to bully u bout it than find new friends have a good life and be urself.......



hope u take my advice and do whats rght for u.... hope u make the right choice....

good luck,,,,,

aubrey