Is it ok for my girlfriend to wear short skirts to dance parties?

ok ive been with my girlfriend for about 9 months than later i saw her myspace pictures where she later deleted them cus i saw them


she was wearing a SHORT skirt dress like right above her mid thigh like litterally below her hips... and wore these boots with heels...





is this a bad sign? she says she never goes out and her friend keeps nagging me saying....that what u dont want her to look good? u want her to wear sweats at a dance? like they keep argueing with me...





also is it ok for my gf to dance with guys?





or even gay men? at a gay dance? i mean....gay men also dance with girls too... and we all know how dances are now....BUMP N GRIND..





is this ok for my girlfriend to bump in grind with guys.. i mean im a guy n i know when a girls *** is on a guys dick... the dick will erect lol





i mean i would lose respect if she did but i dont even know if she does or not.. cus its LONG DISTANCE i love her alot she says she never dance with other guys but how do i know? i mean she wears%26gt;%26gt;%26gt;%26gt;%26gt;





MAKE UP HOT SHORT DRESS like if she bends over u see her underwear and like BOOTS WITH HIGH HEELS???





should i be worried?





Opinions?





my gf says shell look ugly if she doesnt wear a dressIs it ok for my girlfriend to wear short skirts to dance parties?
If she is over 18, she can wear whatever she wants.





If she is under 18, then it is up to her parents.





And, are you that insecure that you do not trust your GF when she dances with others? I guess both of you are under 18.Is it ok for my girlfriend to wear short skirts to dance parties?
Girls like to look pretty. I think you should give her space. People in a relationship need space sometimes. I also think you might be over thinking this a little. You obviously care about her, but she is a big girl.
dude that sucks for you
You sound like you're really over-protective, man. You've been together for nine months, she isn't going to cheat on you now, especially with some random guy! plus she'll feel sexier, so you'll get more ;)
Should she be allowed? She should be allowed to do whatever she wants, you don't own her.
If you're in a trusting and loving relationship, then it shouldn't be a problem if she's going out wearing those clothes if that's what she wants. I wouldn't be too concerned about her dancing with gay men, but if you just talk to her and tell her you're not comfortable with her dancing with other guys if she's going to be ';bumping and grinding'; then I don't really think that's unreasonable because I don't really think it's appropriate for a person in a relationship, whether it be a guy or girl to be grinding up against another man or woman if they're with somebody else.
uh let her wear what she wants but just watch out for that one. its reall your call though. what do you want? do you care if she dances with other guys? make her aware of things in a nice way.
When a girl is taken she should try less to impress other guys. You would lose a lot of pride if your woman dance with other men in a short skirt. People would probably laugh if someone saw her doing that and heard that she had a boyfriend. It's ok for her to look good, but when she is with you or not at a party. I would suggest you think over your long distance relationship. Good luck.
no, she shouldn't be wearing short skirts/shorts, she shouldn't dance that close to guys, and if she really were pretty she'd be pretty dress or no dress





tell her to get a life and better clothes
you can't cotrol her but you should be able to trust her... if she's hiding the fact that she wears risky clothing and dances with guys than that's probably a bad sign but if she tells you what she's doing than it's up to you to figure out if you can deal with it or not.. but don't try to make her change although it is alright to express the fact that it makes you uncomfortable and you just want her to be safe
Whoa its not ok.





She needs to understand that she is in a relationship and is not single anymore.





Talk to her and tell her it bothers you. Would she be mad if you went half naked to a party?











OH AND SHE'S LYING WHEN SHE SAYS SHE'S NOT DANCING WITH OTHERS GUYS


HAHAHHAHAHAHAHHAHA


I'VE BEEN THERE AND SAID THE SAME THING TO ONE OF MY EX'S WHEN i REALLY WAS

















Edit: what kind of girl goes to a party to NOT dance.. She's lying
she can wear whatever she pleases; you don't control that


but what she can't do is bump and grind or do that sh*t with other people. i had a friend who lost her (older) boyfriend to a ho on a grad trip where there was dancing...don't attack her with this though..talk to her first, but i guess pictures tell more words than they need to sometimes..
if its long distance and u caught her lying about this and her friends are being overly protective. hell yeah you should be worried!
um ... dude first thing first.. CALM DOWN A ND BREATH... see it this way for the dancing part.. yea she can dance with gay guys ... cuz there gay they like men not women .. and does she let u dance with girls .. if so u shoud let her dance with her guy friends... not offence to ur gf ... they way she is dressing is very whorish srry but that how i see... yeah she can a dress but she doesn't have to have her *** hangin out of it... the shortest it should be is like couple inchese above the knee.. and if u wear boots witha short *** dress like that.. thats tacky and trashy srry :\.. tell her to wear like normal heals open toed etc.. NO BOOTS WITHA A DRESS u wear boots with pants not a freakin dress!!!
why cant you go to the dance too? and she sounds like a hooker/whore/prostitute. if she really was your girlfreind...she wouldnt be putting on a flirt costume to go to a dance...bcuz all she should needd is you to tell her how she looks, and you probably, being her boyfriend and all, would accept her in anything.
for me? no. you should not allow her to.. you know what? your'e just giving her a chance to flirt with other people..
Yeah, I thought that I would give my girlfriend space, and let her do what made her feel good, without being jealous.





So she cheated on me.





Now, I say that I'm way past all that drama and that people are going to have to act grown-up and responsible, not like they're dogs in heat. Tell her that she can do whatever she wants to do, but that doesn't mean that you'll stick around with her, if she disrespects the relationship.
If she is deleting pics off her myspace then she is hiding something form you.





I have the same problem with my girl. Wearing revealing things when we go out because she wants to look good. But when we go out she never dances with another guy..even if he is gay.
Alright. Well, i'm a girl and I definitely know when to draw the line. If she's going to a gay club, there is nothing to worry about. One of my best friends is gay and honestly, I just see him and his gay buddies just like any of my girlfriends. But, if she's dressing like that to go out to regular clubs it's obvious that she probably wants attention. Being in a two year relationship, my boyfriend gets jealous easily. With how much I care about him, I wouldn't go out to a club all skanked up without him there on my arm.
shes gonna do what shes gonna do %26amp; maybe talking to her more about it is making her do it more its a long distance relationship? find another girl for real! those dont last especially when your chick wants to dress like that maybe just be friend if she cares more about looking ';ugly'; than your feelings
Of-course it is. Do have the goodness to trust her judgment and stop listening to others.


Be happy for her. Does she worry about what you wear? Ask her and find out.
im sorry but this is not a good sign. yes she could wear a little bit longer dresses if she had respect for you, i mean if she knows you have a problem with this she should respect your thoughts, she can still look good with a skirt that is 5 or 6 inches longer!





and as far as the lying about dancing with guys, you dont want to act like a jealous jerk, but it is soo hard to tell with long distance you can never tell. sorry
A girl can only wear clothes like this when they're young and cute. Once you hit 30, it's just a laugh. Let her have fun. To be young and desirable is a wonderful thing. Don't deny her that. She'll resent you forever. It's just posing really. If she comes home to you or leaves with you, it's fine. She experimenting with her sexuality in a safe environment.

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