Sunday, November 21, 2010

Grinding at middle school dance?

So, Im in 7th grade and im 13. we are having school dance on friday. Our 7,8th grades are in a different school than 6th graders, its like 200 meters away btw haha so its close.my point to that is we had a different type of dances in 6th grade, the lights are on, and it SUCKED we couldnt put our hands on the guys necks and theirs on our waist, we would be in soooo much trouble. So, in our 7/8th grade school, our dances are together. So, my grade is starting to grind now. My point to all this is, is it slutty to grind? (i have before, like 5 times) and yeah. and tips to grinding!



also, what do i do if i get partyboyed by 8th graders?! (meaning i get grinded by both sides) and how do i slow dance!? ughh! im so not ready for all this. how do i dance in general? most kids in my grade just jump up and down so i sweat... a lot. (i play many sports so the doctor said my body is used to sweating for all the sporty/ excersizing events ... i know;; it sucks!!) so how do i prevent sweating a lot?!

And how do i get a guy to grind with me?



(by the way;; im in the popular group. but im not a snob,and not mean so dont think otherwise so yeah)



please try to answer all questions! thank you so much!



and also dont say im too young. i honestly dont care. like seriously!?Grinding at middle school dance?
okay. for your grade, I think you can get away with grinding without being called a slut. I am a frosh in high school and I just started. And it is just a dance, not a huge deal.

Tips on grinding-

~ bend your knees a little

~ bend over a little so u can get more a.ss in there hahaha (sorry that sound weird...)

~ when the guy puts his hands on your hips, if you want place your on top of his gently

~ follow the beat of the song and incorporate the beat with your hip movement

~ have confidence!:)

~ try not to swish your hair around a lot because it could get in there face and i guess that aggravates them and i could get there mouth if they are talking or just breathing

~ try to go with a group if you are feeling nervous (P.S, make sure u are with a friend who wants to/ is going to be grinding so you won't be alone

~ just have fun and relax

~ if you want to get into it,take on hand off of the guys hip and put it up in the air and kind of move it around a bit, this shows you are having fun



What to do if you are ';partyboyed';-

~just allow it to happen hahaha, its like double the fun if u like to grind. To give them both what they want, put one hand on the guy behind you's hand (that are on your hips), and the other hand on the guy in front of you's shoulder. Keep moving your hips like you normally would when just grinding with somebody behind you. If you are not comfortable with being ';partyboyed';, just simply back away from both so feeling will not get hurt.



How to get a guy to grind with you-

~ well all guys are different but usually try to...

~ act like you are having fun

~ where tight clothing to show off out womanly features

~ make sexy eye contact with a guy that you want to grind with, but make sure it is casual and ';not intended';;)



Hope I helped!Grinding at middle school dance?
Hi, im in 7th grade to and grinding is not slutty its just really fun. Just bend your knees a little and move your hips in a circle motion to the beat of the song. I have been partyboyed a few times and its kind of fun just go with it. Slow dancing is really easy just put your hands around the guys neck and rock back and forth slowly. To get guys to grind you make sure that you are close to a group of guys so they notice you and laugh and look like you are having a lot of fun with your friends. Don't worry about sweating because everyone is but wear perfume so you smell good and always wear shorts because it gets really hot after a while. Sorry my answer is kind of long i hope i could help:)
You're way too young to be thinking of grinding on a guy. If it happens once, most likely it will happen again and POOF! You're a Britney Spears image. Just have some fun sloww dancing. You don't want to get in trouble. And besides, when your classmates are successful people they will be like ';Hey, remeber that slut in Grade 7. What a joke! She's like homeless now and no one wants to be invovled with her cuz she slept with every guy in high school!'; Make something useful out of your life.
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