Sunday, December 11, 2011

Roaches and how to get rid of them?

I moved in with my real father a few months ago and he told me that the house is built off the ground. It seems like my room is the only room in the entire house to get roaches. They crawl in from the crack of where the carpet meets the wall and i am terrified of bugs. I keep the room very clean, vacuum everyday, it seems like the spray that i spray at the crevice of my entire room only work for a little bit. Like the roach would crawl in and sometimes die or sometimes live. its a 50/50 chance with these guys. How can i get rid of them or stop them from only coming into MY room (and its the cleanest in the whole entire house!)? I just experienced a flying roach last night and i almost had a panic attack. i seriously have a huge fear on bugs and i need to stop this asap. any help please?Roaches and how to get rid of them?
i no what u mean by panick attack. a while ago this huge one flew on my chest out of nowhere and i think i screamed like a girl lol. but i think the best is to put roach traps like everywhere and i mean like 10 in a room. youll be surprised how many you get.Roaches and how to get rid of them?
Have you heard of Naphthalene flakes? It's like ground up moth balls.

You can buy it the hardware store. Sprinkle it around any place where you think those little buggers are getting in. They hate it.

If you can't get any, smear some Vicks in the same places.

You can also catch them, by using empty margarine containers, still with margarine smeared around the inside. Leave the containers out and about. The roaches will be attracted to them and won't be able to get out. In the morning, collect your containers and kill the roaches.

Good fun, eh?
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The rule with cockroaches is that if you just see one, it's not a big deal. If you see two or more, it's time to call in a professional. I know it's not the answer you wanted to hear, but in my experience as a home owner, it's good to know when to do the job yourself and when to call in a true professional. With cockroaches - two or more shows a REAL problem that really only a pro should and can handle.
Like 'Stepherd... said Boric acid at all cracks for the time being, but if they are big southern Palmeto bugs,,, get a exterminator to spray even the trees. these beasts can survive on dinosaur bones and wallboard,glue,paper,insulation,,, etc. BTW, they say that they are very clean but buggy!
Hotshot, arpro and combat put out gels that come with syringes that makes it easier to put it in cracks. The roaches eat this and go back to their nest. They die and the other roaches eat them. There can be 40 dead roaches via one dead roach. This will get rid of the nest. Tree roaches fly, so there are roaches in the trees. Sealing up the crack they are coming in after you kill them would be good. Having some dead roaches for the others to eat would be good.
You need a professional exterminator ... If you have roaches, they are in the whole house .. you just haven't seen them outside of your room .
Put Boric acid in all the edges along the wall,that is their favorite place to travel.Clean up all the food,don't have any open packages left,rinse out cans before you put them in the trash.Take all the garbages out of your house daily.If there is any food anywhere they can get at,they will be back.Cleanliness is the key.

I lived in an apartment complex with thousands of roaches and this is the method I used and didn't have any.

Of course another reason they might of left my apartment is not just cause there was no food but there was someone else with bad cleaning habits nearby and just migrated there.Boric acid works great though,it dehydrates them.Be careful if you have pets and see if it will be ok to use around them I am not sure,but I think Boric acid is relativly harmless.

One more thing if you see an eggsack laying around,(they look almost like a tic tac lol)squish it in some toilet paper and flush it down the toilet,don't let it sit around it will make alot more roaches.
Transform into Rambo, but with RAID cans!

Girls are confusing, and this ones sending mega mixed signals?

Yo, so I鈥檓 good friends with this girl. I鈥檝e known her for a year and hung about with her and her group of friends for 6 months now (I was friendly with the other guys anyway). She really good looking and so nice, so you can imagine how many guys like her, and how many guys try to go with her. So basically, people, I keep getting mixed signals from her. At times I see her glancing towards me but when I look towards her she looks away. I went to a pre-formal with her and the group of mates (its like a big party which happens like 10/12 times through the school year for all peeps in the 2 oldest years), we danced during it, sometimes I went off to dance with other girls, just to say hi etc, however she would always call me back when she saw me with them (she jealous much haha ;D) 鈥?does that mean she likes me? I鈥檓 not sure 鈥? Hence why I post the question! Any time we are in school she would always rub up against me 鈥?eg, she was imitating how this guy was grinding her (yea, i had to take care of him鈥? Martial art style haha), she demonstrated this on me, instead of describing and doing it to one of the guys who she knew for longer... Need less to say I was happy enough haha. There way more stuff like that btw鈥?tis not a one off, and she only does it to me. The next day though she was kinda cold towards me as if I was trying to get into her鈥? And I did nothing of the sort, she invited me to dance with her, she started flirting with me 鈥?if anything I should be cold towards her!



So last night we went to the cinema 鈥?with the group of mates and some other peeps we are friendly with, it was an awesome night and after some of us went to her house for some banter. When we were at her house though things were weird, anytime I tried to spark up convo with everyone she would reply but never too me, always to one of the other dudes. Eye contact was at a minimum and I felt she was really cold towards me. I鈥檓 trying to brush this off that she is too nervous? If she doesn鈥檛 like me, I wont be too bummed, but she seems to think that I am trying to 鈥榞et into鈥?her 鈥?that arrogance and that is pissing me off.



Oh, I texted he this morning and said 鈥榊o r-dawg, tell your mum im sorry about voices last night, its too hard to control this manly voice鈥?haha ojoj鈥? as joke of course (hence the ojoj haha), but she hasn鈥檛 replyed in 2 hours 鈥?shes probably at work though. So was this a bit too strange for her? I don鈥檛 care if we don鈥檛 date; I just wanna be at least good friends with her without her getting uncomfortable.



(of course I can be stupid at times, I would sometimes make the joke about how a guy likes her and make some jokes with a bit off sexual innuendo, which at times doesn鈥檛 go down well with her haha)



So for a girl who all the lads like, do you think the way she acted with me at the preformal and school shows signs that she likes me? If not do you think I鈥檓 being forward at all?Girls are confusing, and this ones sending mega mixed signals?
Some1s actually gonna read all that?Girls are confusing, and this ones sending mega mixed signals?
Just what you say enjoy her friendship. Why guys need to make life complicated, just be natural. Make friends, and if it turns to improve then luckily for you.

Can somebody help me out here? What's his problem?

Theres this guy friend Im taking to prom and he was acting really weird at our skool dance last nite. He would like come over to my group of friends %26amp; dance with every girl except me. He wouldnt even talk to me %26amp; if I said something hed ignore me. Then he left %26amp; this hot guy started grinding me, my guy friend walked by and glared. After that a slow song came on and I asked my guy friend to dance. I jokingly said that I just got raped by a creepy guy I didnt know and he looked at my funny and said the guy's name %26amp; I asked how he knew %26amp; he didn't say anything. Then he took one arm off me %26amp; refused to look at me. He tried to teach me this dance %26amp; I couldnt do it so he told me I was hopeless. He had no problem touching %26amp; talking to other girls, why is he acting like that? What's his problem?Can somebody help me out here? What's his problem?
Take someone else to the prom and have a good time. This guy sounds like one big pain in the you know what..............your a kid for God's sake you should be having fun, not this kind of bullsh*t, don't ya think. You've got your whole life to have drama in it............your too young to be involved with someone with a creepy and suspicious and disrespectful personality.



Clue one about this guy if you were to really get involved with him the bullsh*t games he'll play with you!!!!!!

Funny (but it's not) how this is playing out for you like a movie about this guy, but you've gone to the extent to write this question on here because why you don't understand what's going on..........I don't understand how you don't, you just told us all what a friggin looser this guy is, so you must of understood it all in order to write the things you did. That's what's not funny, is ';we'; and when I say ';we'; women know it, see it, feel it, but sometimes we ignore it.

Don't ignore it !Can somebody help me out here? What's his problem?
I hope you read this cause this is important too. It will always end up as an apology. I realize cause I've been there that some people are like talking to a brick wall. Don't be a brick wall!

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you need to ask him whats his problem so you can get pass this.
I don't think he wants to go to prom with you, he must of got a better invitation. Ask him!!
that's odd behavior but it sounds as if maybe he has heard something about you that was not to his liking. maybe he heard you've been messing around with some other guy and he's really jealous (and immature) so rather than just confronting you, he's ';acting out.'; I'd ask him what's the problem to see if he will wise up and talk to me but if not, I'd ignore his childish behavior. Don't think you have to put up with nonsense just 'cause you're taking him to the prom.
i think hes being a jerk. but ask wat his prob first.
you're his friend, he feels uncomfortable being like that with you it sounds like.

or.....not to give you false hope.....

He could like you and is being weird to try to catch your attention.



If so......

Clearly He likes playing games, I like playing games,

games are funnn!!!
You should really talk to him. It sounds like he's just trying to aviod you. And if that's the case and u take him to prom he's gonna ruin the whole night for you! And its prom and u really just wanna have fun right!
sounds like a freak

LADIES: How to ask a girl to dance at a club?

Here's the deal: I've done some homework, and apparently girls like to be asked to dance (according to Y!A).



Here's the problem: Whenever I ask a girl they just decline. It's as if chivalry isn't only dead, its been cremated and buried and I've just showed up offering its repulsive remains.



I've gotten used to just going up behind them, at an angle, and subtly let them know I will be dancing behind them, then place my hands on her hips and we keep dancing and enjoy it (usually until she gets tired). This also works in groups, if 3 girls are dancing, my 2 buddies and I will approach simultaneously. Seems to work fine...most of the time.



I have girl friends that let guys dance behind them like this as well. Yet I keep coming across girls who call these guys creepers.



Maybe its a cultural thing depending on location, maybe it's just preference, but the way clubs work here, in Miami, is well...grinding with a stranger.



So ladies, with experience, how do you like to be approached? Do you like to be asked or is okay if a guy suddenly grinds behind you? Both? How do you think the majority of girls feel about it?



Bonus: If you do like to be asked, what is the best way?LADIES: How to ask a girl to dance at a club?
i'm sure you're not creepy, you might just be a TAD forward for them. they might get the idea that you're only there for one reason, sex, rather than getting to know them. im a girl, and we all love being approached. you just gotta do it right :) just go up to her, be really friendly, but not too forward. if your at a club ask her if you can buy her a drink, don't get her more than one unless she asks or she'll think you're trying to intoxicate her then rape her. lol. just ask her name, tell her yours, give her a compliment, start a conversation, then ask her if she wants to dance, if she says no shes taken :)LADIES: How to ask a girl to dance at a club?
Hey, do you wanna dance?



And no. Going up behind to just start grinding is for high school.
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  • How do i tell her this?

    I'm a girl and been dating my girlfriend for 2 months already. I look like a guy (having small boobs, short hair, etc). She thinks I'm a guy. She tried grinding on me at clubs but I pushed her away. She really wants to kiss me. I want to too but I fear she want to break up with me. She's straight. I don't want to hurt her. How do I overcome my fear to telling her that I'm a girl?How do i tell her this?
    r u afraid she myte leave u? if yes luk at the situation from dis point that even if u dnt tel her dat ur a girl she would come to no dat one day or anoder probably when she's trying to turn u on r she myte get 2 no abt it from sum1 else(which is horrible)... so d only way u can feel better is just tel her that u r sum1 whom she myte not lyk 2 hang around wid. if she doesn mind u being a girl it seems u r luky or just try behaving more lyk a girl so that u gt hold of a boy next tym. and yes wat r u afraid of? she wont gobble u dwn if u told her wat u were. just b happy wid wat cums ur way and yeah if she leaves u then u shud undrstand that one of the reasons 4 hvin a troubled lyf just walked out of ur path....How do i tell her this?
    wow that's disgusting you should step out of her life immediately you perv
    Wow, your in a tight situation. Are you bi??? Or are you just confused....

    Girls, especially older teens in the UK, can you read and answer my question please?

    Are YOU personally looking for a relationship with a guy. I feel like girls these days are only looking for sex and only sex and to jump from guy to guy.



    im not some geeky guy or anything, im relatively good looking and out going (im not trying to blow my own trumpet or anything) but i put a lot of importance on sex and value it highly, but not in the way i think most guys do. I value sex as in a special connection between two people.



    it just seems like most girls want to go to clubs, get free drinks off guys, starting grinding with some hot guys, go and get f*cked senseless and then the next week do that same thing all over again with different guys.



    Being honest, how true would you say this is? Do you want a relationship, or just a fun fling?



    thanks for answeringGirls, especially older teens in the UK, can you read and answer my question please?
    me personally would just love a relationship, id only want sex when im ready and when i feel its the right guy. Yeh i want it to be special and like theres a connection 2, u no. My friends would want a relationship too, not all girls just want a fun fling, honestly. so id say most girls do wnt a relationship, someone to b thr, etc, not just sum1 to hav a quickie with. hpe this helped. XXXGirls, especially older teens in the UK, can you read and answer my question please?
    im not an older teen

    but when i am old enough to go to clubs i dont wanna be like that



    i think relationships are important
    If you want UK answers, try the Yahoo Answers UK boards, seriously!
    Not all girls are the same. Some do want what you described above; others really want a loving relationship where you can have lots of fun and sex but it means something, like you said, it's a special connection. Girls that want a new guy every week and want free drinks etc. will mostly be found at clubs and bars, places like that. If you want a relationship and not just a fling, one should try meeting girls in places other than that. Me, personally, I always look for relationships. Flings just aren't my thing.



    You sound like a really nice guy - good luck finding a nice girl who deserves you :)
    yea i know girls that would just rather have sex and i know girls that are looking for serious relationships. Its the same thing with guys too. And i agree that sex should be between two people who truly care about eachtother.

    BTW:any chance you can come to the U.S.?

    =]
    i believe relationships are very important
    Honestly, I consider myself to be one of those females that naturally crave the male gender. Although, I believe that if two people are going to be sexually intimate then they should be in a relationship or have a really strong connection. I could never sleep around with random people for fun!



    What's so fun about possibly (most likely) catching diseases?
    I am an older teen and i would say that you should steer clear of girls who are like this. There are plenty of us who really do want a relationship with a guy and not just a good f*ck.
    i don't go to clubs and 'grind' and have one night stands and get drunk senseless, thats so tacky. i have morals and i respect myself and i'm also saving myself until i'm married, as i also belive it's something to be shared between two committed people.

    we're not all sl*ts you know!
    I'm 17, and yeah that's true. Most people I know are like that, but personally I'm with you. So yeah there are girls who want a serious relationship, just not as many. A lot of girls love going to clubs etc etc but when they find a guy they really like they do calm down and it can be serious, so don't give up.

    GRINDINGGGG on guyss!!!!????????

    ok so i KNOW for a fact and ive been told im an expert at grinding lol i know how to move my hips ;)



    lol but anyways i was wondering do guys like it wehn girls grind them like really hard or what?



    cuz the guys i grind with in the clubb like put their hands by my crotch and like push me inn haha its soo funny and ive noticed most guys when their getting grinded start of all happy and then sucha blank staree with like their mouth open like its weirddd hahaGRINDINGGGG on guyss!!!!????????
    That blank stare with the mouth wide open means they just lost control of their crotch marbles... LOL



    Cleanup on Isle 7...GRINDINGGGG on guyss!!!!????????
    yes guys like it when you grind. my gf was able to have an orgasm when she grind agaisnt me when i got hard. If your hot you made these guys *** in ther epants thats why they get happy and stare
    you let random guys touch your crotch?

    How do i tell her this?

    I'm a girl and been dating my girlfriend for 2 months already. I look like a guy (having small boobs, short hair, etc). She thinks I'm a guy. She tried grinding on me at clubs but I pushed her away. She really wants to kiss me. I want to too but I fear she want to break up with me. She's straight. I don't want to hurt her. How do I overcome my fear to telling her that I'm a girl?How do i tell her this?
    This is sooooooooo wrong.If this girl is straight then you have no right to let her believe you are a guy.You had best come clean and hope she don't knock your head off.You should not be ashame of what you are but should be ashame of what you are doing

    Question about a girl?

    ok well if you meet a girl at a dance and like you guys are grinding and she asks you for your number and you give it to her and she says we should hang out some time how long should a guy usually wait to call?



    And when i do call what should i say with out it being awakward?Question about a girl?
    2 days is an appropriate wait time in my opinion. Gives her time to discuss and analyze with her friends and maybe build up some anticipation, but is short enough to still have her attention. Tell her that you had a really ggod time the other night and you were wondering if she would maybe like to go out sometime.Question about a girl?
    wait 3-4 days to call

    anytime before that makes u seem desperate.

    call and ask her about hanging out

    when/where

    ask her how she is

    and how u had a good time the other night
    Um, call her but not too late because that results in her not wanting to hang out with someone who has trouble giving somebody a call.
    call her like 2 days after.





    believe me!!

    i am a girl i HATE waiting for a guy to call, its really hard to wait. Just call shes probably waiting for you to call.
    one week at least

    tell very nice u hear from u i am wait for u call

    how life going on how u health

    have u taken food
    wait about 2 or 3 days and then just ask her out to lunch or to starbucks or something like that
    wait about 3 or 4 days and when u do call her if you like her tell her how u feel and if u just want to be her friend then tell her i mean im sure she is waiting on you to call if she is really interested in you
    Hello --



    I am not sure I would call her! Did you give her your number?



    I guess I would call her the next day, but then again I am a little picky and a little desperate.



    Best of luck,



    Bill
    I am a girl.. I also hate to wait.. but the truth is... you should wait like a week and a half (so we start to get desesperated.. but we even want to hang out with you) if you do it before.. we will go out with you but the emotion will not be the same.. if you wait more.. we could be .. mm mm angry haha.. so i would suggest, if you met her on saturday call her on tuesday (but no the next tuesday.. wait more than a week) , so you could ask her to go out next saturday. and dont forget.. she could tell you.. I couldnt (because we use to say it)... and you could suggest... mm hopefuly you could an sunday night because friday I'm busy (so she will see you are not that abaiable.. and also she will see you are interested)
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  • This guy goes to a bar that's on the tenth floor of a hotel.?

    He sits down and has a couple of drinks, then stands up, announces loudly that he has had enough, and goes over and jumps out the window. Now, there are two men who are sitting at a window table, and having that natural human curiosity about the grotesque, watch as this man plummets to certain death. However, just as he is about to hit the ground, he rights himself, pulls his feet underneath himself, and lands gracefully. He then turns and comes back into the building. Naturally, the two men are amazed. The guy comes back into the bar, orders a few drinks, then repeats the process. The two men at the window seat are astounded! When the guy returns and repeats the procedure AGAIN, the two men stop him before he jumps and ask him how on earth he does that. He replies ';It's simple, really. There's an air vent down by the ground, and if you catch the updraft, you can right yourself and land on the ground with no problems.'; Then he proceeded to jump out the window again. Well, these two men decided that they just HAD to try this, so they jumped out the window, and SPLAT! -- made a mess hitting all over the ground. Meanwhile, the first guy has made it back up to the bar. When he sits down to order his drinks, the bartender says ';Superman, you can be a real b@stard when you're drunk!';This guy goes to a bar that's on the tenth floor of a hotel.?
    That was a good one, ha ha ! So whats the question ?This guy goes to a bar that's on the tenth floor of a hotel.?
    pretty good.
    man ,that joke is so old
    ha! i love that one! woulda never thought it would be superman!!
    nice... heard it before, but I had to read through the whole thing to remember the punchline
    That was soooo freaking hilarious! One I'll surely remember!
    lol nice one man!!!!

    How do you grind with a girl at the club?

    My friends want me to go with them to the Club on Monday since I'm not the most ';social'; person and I don't have a girlfriend. So they want me to go with them. Problem is I don't really know how to dance, let alone don't even know HOW to ask a girl at the club to dance with me. And I heard that most girls do that grinding dance at the club, so anyone know what a guy is suppose to do when grinding? And how can I ask a girl to dance with me?How do you grind with a girl at the club?
    Look around and spot a girl you think is hot, a good dancer and is having a good time with her friends.

    Walk towards her way.

    Go up to the girl and ask her if she wants to dance. Note: You do not always have to ask. Sometimes, at bigger parties with more girls, they like it better when you don't talk at all. However, if you happen to know her, it would be better to ask.



    If she says yes, calmly stand behind her and place your hands on her hips.

    Start swaying side to side in a figure-eight shape with slightly bent knees. Again, it doesn't have to be a figure eight, but a lot of the time it's merely a side to side motion, but keep pressure constant, and add variety (girls like that).

    Pay attention to her reactions.

    If she says no, then just walk away and don't force her to or ask lots of questions.

    If she doesn't like it, she might stop and stand there or she will slow down. If so, remove your hands and slowly walk away.

    This is not always the case, and it is possible to help them regain their interest, just do a little more movement, add variety.

    If she does like it, you can get more into it by pressing your body a little harder against her and overall getting closer to her. You can also place your hands somewhere else

    If a song ends and you still would like to dance with her ask her if she would like to dance to another song.

    Most guys would just keep dancing or follow her when she walks away, but then that would not give the girl a chance to say no.

    Be polite and ask her if she would like to go for another song.



    SIMPLE TIPS--

    If she starts to smile, try leaning into her neck; girls like that.

    Stay with the music and move to the beat of the song. If its a fast song, slow down a little so the grinding is more enjoyable.

    Some girls will grab your hands or your neck. This is a good sign; just stay cool and go with it. Don't get nervous!

    Look at your friends or other people if you're unsure of how fast to go.

    Don't seem too desperate. If a girl just doesn't feel like it don't stalk her.

    Play it cool. Let her be in control most of the time and if you feel like things are about to go stale take the lead and show her you got moves.How do you grind with a girl at the club?
    relax, you'll learn it there. its the easiest dance to learn.



    most important: enjoy the music and try to be as horny as possible.
    google it :)

    My boyfriend just revealed that his best friend has been contemplating suicide.?

    His friend is manipulating enough. When we go out his latest thing is that he wants to go too. I want to be more private with my boyfriend. Camping is our thing that we have been doing alone and recently his friend wants to plan camping as something that they do too, with or without me. His friend has very few friends and is an alcoholic. My boyfriend wants me to feel guilty and says that since his friend is reaching out in wanting to be with us I should ablige. I get the message that this guy is VERY jealous of my time with my boyfriend and the guy won't make other friends or get a girlfriend. Now I hear that his friend recently has thought about suicide. I think that he just wants to make my boyfriend cater to him more because he is lonely and jealous and wants to control how my boyfriend spends his time now even with me. Do you think I should let him go camping with us? I feel like it will give the guy more ground to manipulate the situation except suicide will be a threatMy boyfriend just revealed that his best friend has been contemplating suicide.?
    when someone thinks about sucide is a serious matter. I think that if your boyfriend is a good friend to this guy he should find some professional help. I believe that your support is very important as well. because if something happens to this guy and you do not support him then he will more likely blame you. However you need to let both of them know that you want some time alone together with your boyfriend. Talk to them both at the same time and tell the frined that you dont mind the occasional getting together all 3 of you and that you enjoy that. but that you need some special alone time for the relationship that you have with your boyfriend. I am sure he will understand as long as this is talk. and the way its told. let me know how it all goes.My boyfriend just revealed that his best friend has been contemplating suicide.?
    well if he is really contemplating suicide than a little time with him is wise. if hes doing that just to get close to your boyfriend than hes got something very wrong with him. i'd watch out for you and your boyfriend.
    ok i am a guy and i can tell you calmmm down, your a girl his friend is a guy i would never choose to be wid a guy ova a girl and their is no threat your playing into this guys hand by freaking out, if you act freaked out, bitchy and all that your bf will look at you in a different light which this guy wants, just be understanding and caring and if the guys there take it with a pinch of salt and make out with your boyfriend and tell your bf you wanna mess around while his friends there, but make sure you cant or let him taste wat he's missing he'll soon get very antsy and realise he cant mess around with you while friend is around and he will make sure he gets more time to be with you,



    Also consider if his friend is really suicidal which is a posibility you dont want someones death on your consionce

    so be the caring girlfriend that understands, then after some time you can say honey i've been understanding and i need more time with you,



    if i think my gf is a ***** or is acting bitchy it really makes me rethink if i want to be with her



    so be that loving girl he wants and he'll love you and kiss you and make sure he puts you first he's just feels obligated to his friend which will pass eventually
    He`s an alcoholic and he doesn`t have a girlfriend I think his suicidal thoughts are true.Being jealous of you is in a different category.He should still do things with his best friend.Girl friends or boyfriends should`nt get in the way of a friendship.I do agree that you should spend time alone.If you are with your boyfriend all the time ,its hard for his best friend to spend time with him.

    How do i grind at a dance with a guy?

    OMGSH this is urgent people pleaseeeee help me!

    i have a dance on friday and i need tip,advice, ANYTING tell me how to do this ahhhHow do i grind at a dance with a guy?
    Just dance really close. Press your body into his and move along to the rhythm. Basically, just press your @ss into his d!ck. That's what it means, but you don't HAVE to do it.



    Lol, you must be like 12 or something.How do i grind at a dance with a guy?
    Bend a little wiggle your butt near to him hold your hand up and down sexily that should solve your problem. BTW practice your facial expression... check some chick flick movie they usually have those...

    Why do girls like to bump and grind on the dance floor with strangers?

    What satisfaction do they get? and how do they choose the guy to bump and grind with? Just curious, it seems to be a trend now.Why do girls like to bump and grind on the dance floor with strangers?
    i dont know why we like to do it...it really starts to happen when we get drunk....but hey its fun... and if you got rthym...who really cares if you're a complete stranger?!Why do girls like to bump and grind on the dance floor with strangers?
    THAT IS AS FAR YOU WILL GET FROM THEM BUMP AND GRIND ON THE FLOOR.NOTHING ELSE[THE ONES BUMP AND GRIND THEY THE ONES NOT EASY TO HAVE SEX WITH..]

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    most gurls will grind with anyone. where i'm from. good news 4 me.

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    what the heck does LDS mean? looney, dumb and stupid?
    becuz if ur like me and most gurlz u can dance really good...and you wanna show it off...i love to dance...it is probably my favorite thing to do..hey if u got it flaunt it....
    Because the stranger lets them do it.

    Do you think it would happen the other way around. Hell no, sexual harassment.

    Men are just looking for it, and women like the thrill of it. Supply and demand.
    It's a way to get attention. they just randomly choose a guy and start feeling him up. I think it's to make other girls jealous. Like ';Hey yall, Look what I got and you don't'; I don't think us guys have any real meaning to their sneak attack grinding.,
    It is symptomatic of today's low morals. Girls of higher caliber, higher morals, higher class don't debase themselves by acting out sex with strangers. I am LDS and whenever I attend an LDS dance for youth you NEVER see this kind of debasing behavior among girls that raised properly by parents with high morals.
    I personally hate when a stranger comes out of nowhere when I'm in my dancing craze. I love to move and ';grind it'; but it is not an invitation to anyone to come and ';bump'; me but that is just me, I really don't know why any female would like that kind of unhealthy attention.
    That was popular when I was in college too. However, it was always the guys trying to bump and grind with us girls. And being the ';good'; girls we would laugh and walk away. Only the sketchy girls actually got into it.
    I have never been bumped and grinded.
    Attention...and too much alcohol!!
    attention- and they want to be perceived as beautiful. Sadly enough, what else does it spell out about them? Need I say?
    Well, just to have a good time really. I mean we know we'll more than likely never see those guys again %26amp; we want to have some fun while we're out on the town. We might also be trying to get the attention of another guy by showing off. Usually we just choose a guy that we know isn't with his girl or she'll get really jealous %26amp; start something. Sometimes though all we can do is blame the alcohol.
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  • How do you grind with a girl? [im a guy]?

    Newyears is tomorow i know theres ganna be some grinding so i have some questions.



    How do i grind with a girl, what motions do i put in my hips. Do i just follow her ***?



    What if i get an errection, will she leave me on the floor or would she be expecting one. (any tips to hold in errections or should i wear tight underwear :P)



    On the floor do i just go to a girl and start witout communication?. what if she has a man i dont want fights , its newyears.How do you grind with a girl? [im a guy]?
    errections are perfectly ok when grinding we expect it and if it doesnt happen the most likely somethings wrong haha. but just go with the flow. you can put your hands on her hips and lead her so that you dont get off rhythem. to start a grind you have to have a little communication; i mean you cant just start rubbing on someone. if she has a man then she will most likely be grinding with HIM. so dont worry too muchHow do you grind with a girl? [im a guy]?
    Put your di** on her *** and follow her moves. LMAO!
    you just hold her waist, some guys move with them but be and all my friends prefer them to just stand there. just ask her, do you wanna dance?good luck %26amp; have funn!
    like i said, WAY too many questions about grinding!

    **if you are pressing your penis against her body, she will be able to feel that you have an erection. so its kind of hard to hide it, seeing as that is what grinding is....

    who goes to a grinding party anyways? just dont grind with anyone if you dont want to get an erection in public. if you see a cute girl, just talk to her, and dance with her, the normal way.

    you obviously seem really uncomfortable and not sure about grinding, so just dont do it. just because everyone else is doing it doesnt mean you have to!

    How do i grind with a 6'4 guy when I'm 5'0?

    my boyfriend and i are going to our senior prom together we have been dating for almost 2 years so its not a problem with being comfortable or not with him, we are well past that



    I'm not worried about how to dance, but as far as grinding goes my butt is like at his thighs... when it should be a lot higher. so i don't know how to get up there? maybe him just bend his knees a little?

    my heels will be off so no advantage there:(



    anyways he has never been to a dance before and doesn't really know what it feels like to grind with someone so i wanna give him the full experience and enjoy himself:)How do i grind with a 6'4 guy when I'm 5'0?
    Make him sit down or put him against the wall...from a my perspective as a guy we like to be sat down and when your against the wall your gonna bend your knees.lol

    What can I do to be more forceful with guys?

    I have a little problem, and it came up again last night. I was hanging out with my friends and one of my friend's male cousin. We were hanging out on the bed, watching a movie, and the guy kept grinding his erection against me, kissing the back of my neck, etc. It was awful, but I couldn't think of what to do. I just froze up, wishing he would stop but not wanting to be rude or alarm my friends. I didn't encourage him, and I pulled his hand out of my skirt three or four times, but I just couldn't say anything. I really hate being rude, and truthfully, I was kind of scared.



    What can I do to keep this from happening again? How do I work on the confidence I need, or set up boundaries? I always think I'm a tough girl, but when guys get grabby, I get petrified by fear. I've been sexually assaulted in the past, but I don't know if that's relevant.What can I do to be more forceful with guys?
    Do you et people walk all over you in other areas of life too or is it just with guys and touhing you? I have this problem too. I tried counseling, they said it is my self esteem. If you've been abused in the past that might have lowered your self value. At least you're abe to pull his hand out of your skirt, just be more forceful, say no, or move away from him. It's not rude to tell someone not to touch you, you don't belong to them.What can I do to be more forceful with guys?
    Um first of all its not rude to say ';get the hell off me'; esspecially when its unwanted. Next time don't be so shy to say anything.

    Is it okay for my girl friend to dance with guys at a bar on her girls night out?

    This is the first girl friend I had in 3 years I was just curious about how you guys and gals deal with this situation. I know in a healthy relationship its okay to go out with other friends. Now here is where I don't know what to think. . .



    She came home and told me a guy was grinding on her and dancing with her and she told me that he gave her his number anyway. She made mention that she told the guy that she had a boy friend and he gave his number out to her anyway. (not sure what she did with it.)



    How would you feel about it?

    Is this behavior okay? Im a bit confused because I don't want my feelings to get me in a fight or arguemnet I thought I would come and ask others on yahoo so that when I bring up my feelings about this behavior I would have a good way to put it to her without disrespecting her free fun time.Is it okay for my girl friend to dance with guys at a bar on her girls night out?
    Tell her you're not going to put up with that BS!Is it okay for my girl friend to dance with guys at a bar on her girls night out?
    Be honest with yourself. Have you betrayed her confidence in any shape or form? Have you given her any reason for suspecting your loyalty? Don't b***s**t yourself with ';well, maybes';. It's a simple ';Yes'; or ';No'; question, no shades of gray. If the answer is ';Yes';, then it's your fault. If the answer is ';No';, then it's her responsibility and hers alone.



    Obviously she has zero respect for you and knows she can control and manipulate you like a puppet and you'll always come back asking for more like a wimp. Otherwise she wouldn't risk doing something to risk a relationship.



    Unless you like sloppy seconds, cut out immediately. I hope you're not living in her home, or you haven't invited her to live in yours, otherwise you're in a lot of trouble.



    That woman just told you in plain colors there's no future in this. There's no ';I'm sorry';s or ';It won't happen again'; that will change this very fundamental fact: she broke your confidence, and nothing short of almighty intervention will mend it back. Don't get angry. Don't get even. It's just the way it is, because people are slowing accepting that this kind of behavior is acceptable. If you still have an iota of self-respect left in you, pick your things and move one. You owe her nothing, no contact, no explanation, absolutely nothing.



    If you happen to cross her, just make something up, tell her you don't love her anymore, whatever. Repeat if you have to if she asks for details. If she asks if this is because she betrayed you or whatever, you can deny it if you want, but you stick to the fundamental, you don't love her. No being friends (that's just even worse!!), because friends don't betray. No need for futher explanations.



    Don't waste any more energy on that.
    Alright I am 24 and I have some experience with this situation unlike many of these kids who will probably answer.



    Honestly I don't have a problem with some dancing at the clubs, honestly the person isn't going to like it but really it's just harmless fun that lets us have a bit of excitement without any meaning. She definitely crossed the line by giving out her number and by accepting his. I would be pretty mad about it because honestly, you don't make new friends at clubs like that so really why would she want some guy texting her and stuff.

    How do you get guys to come over and grind with you? at a dance?

    how do you get a guy to come over and grind with you?



    i usually sway my hips.



    but my friends are all really short so they look like grade nines.

    and also im skinny, is that a turn off? becuase they want *** to grind with.



    what would make them want to come and grind?How do you get guys to come over and grind with you? at a dance?
    What the heck kind of a person asks a question like this? Have you any self respect? How do you get guys to come over and grind with you? at a dance?
    you can also go up to a guy and start dancing with him. if they don't want you then ur probally too good for them

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    i rather have you grab me and then i think i would start dancing freaky with you


    why do you want that to happen anyway
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    okay so im in high school and the prom is coming up soon and i have no idea how to grind or even dance!!! i do not feel comftorable at all since i am very very shy. i guess you can say im really attractive since last year tons of girls were asking to dance but i said no since im shy and i dont know how to dance or grind. and i dont want to stay home for prom or go to prom and just be a loner because then i will feel like a loser. please tell me how to grind because that is how everyone at my school dances. and please give me advice on how to not be so shy also. i am really not looking forward to prom because of this and 2 girls have already asked me to prom. and please no one say that grinding is inappropriate because if you think that you are pretty outdated with society and highschoolHow to grind dance when you are the guy and your shy?
    Well, I'm not saying grinding is ';inappropriate'; but if you're a shy guy, steer clear of grinding sluts. I know this sounds stupid and boring, but if you're not comfortable dancing, try slow dancing first. Just tryin to help...How to grind dance when you are the guy and your shy?
    Okay well grinding isn't that hard for the guys, we pretty much do all the work lol. So i hope you know the basics lol. She's in front your in back. Now we do all the work the guys pretty much just stand behind sway with the beat and look down at her butt lol. (this is what he meant by inappropriate people) if she starts to drop low then you take her hand you hold Your arm out over her shoulder(make sure your arm isn't resting on her shoulder) and pretty much drop slowly but sort of thrust forward a tad.. and make sure your still swaying to the beat. As for dancing identify what you mean.. slow dancing? Or step dances like the soulja boy, cupid shuffle, two step and walk it out?
    THIS IS A LOT BUT IT WORKS AND I HAVE USED, LEARNED, AND SEEN IT ALL



    good question and i understand you predicament one of my friends had this same problem last year.



    i am a great grind dancer and a junior in highschool.



    first off you need to take it easy most girls are just as apprehensive as you are. one major question that seems to have no wrong answer to and that is discussed a lot is whether or not to get a ***** while grinding it seems important but it isn't as important as you would think, if you are dancing with a friend i highly discourage it, but with a date or someone you meet on the dance floor then its cool. most girls like to feel something, and take it as a compliment. if they do like it you are gunna score big.



    ok back to the basics



    standard grinding is most commonly understood as a girl with her butt on your junk, with your hands on the sides of her hips and her hands in the air, on your hips, on your ***, holding your hands, directing your hands where to go, ect... she can do pretty much anything with them. after about one song if she doesn't pull away then its ok to move your hands around to her belly/waist, take it slow and if she moves them back respect that. keep your his pressed to hers and move in a cicular motion or side to side with her body, not against it unless she is purposely trying to create friction by moving up and down with her butt. if she just drops down slowly with her whole body then go down with her.



    intermidiate to more advanced



    if you have really clicked with her and have been dancing for 5-6 songs she might turn around and start dancing front to front, you can put your hands around her hips or her butt, she will have one leg in between yours and you the same with her, she will either put her arms around your neck or shoulders and someimes your waist. the longer you grind like this the closer you can get ultimately ending in a ';dance-hug'; grind completely wraped around eachother. (ps. front grinding is a great way to kiss, makeout, grope if you are in a relationship and both of you are ok with it) never press anyone into something they don't want to do. she might lead you to switch back to regular grinding keep it fresh unless you want to take it further than dancing.



    advanced/relationship material



    if she is your date to a formal dance and you both like eachother and a relationship could spawn from it then you have more ground to work with, but once again do not cross boundaries unless the girl gives you signals. such as.. if you are regular grinding and she puts her arms striaght up into the air and keeps them there you have the go ahead to move your hands up her arms and depending on the circumstances over her boobs, but with out stopping. if you have been dancing for over 5 songs you can move your hands slowly, very slowly and gradually down from her belly onto her thighs, and inner thighs but don't touch her crotch unless she gives the ok and don't vebally ask her she will move your hands there or onto her boobs if she wants that. never ever touch a girl if she doesn't tell you to her self or move your hands. you can do the same with her when you grind from the front.



    though i have seen it i don't think it is the time or the place to be having sex on the dance floor, if its prom save it for the limo or hote room, don't be an idiot and use this advice well go to a prliminary event such as homecoming or a different dance before prom to try basic grinding and get comfortable with it.



    good luck

    Prom dancing?

    so my bf and I have been dating for like 3 weeks. Ive known him for a year though. He is a sr and didnt go to him sr prom (we werent dating then) He doesnt really like going to dances. But I asked him to go with me to mine. He really said he would go. And I think that he DOES want to go. My problem is that neither of us like rap, and i dont know if he would be the kinda of guy to grind and w/e (probably not), but I dont like it. He isnt a dancer, so how should we go about dealing with the rap and bad music during prom? Should we dance crazy? Will he expect me to grind?Prom dancing?
    dancing is not complicated at all, just do what you feel is good, you dont have to grind at all. Prom is suppose to be a time to have fun and stuff, so go have fun, dont make things all techinical and stuff

    1 week .......?

    so my bf and I have been dating for like 3 weeks. Ive known him for a year though. He is a sr and didnt go to him sr prom (we werent dating then) He doesnt really like going to dances. But I asked him to go with me to mine. He really said he would go. And I think that he DOES want to go. My problem is that neither of us like rap, and i dont know if he would be the kinda of guy to grind and w/e (probably not), but I dont like it. He isnt a dancer, so how should we go about dealing with the rap and bad music during prom? Should we dance crazy? Will he expect me to grind?1 week .......?
    don't stress about it too much, talk with him and ask him what he wants to do.. it's your night to shine and have fun, so go crazy and have the most fun you can(even if you don't really like the music, make do with it and your after party can have the music you like)

    just remember, it's not too important on how you dance but how much fun you're having..

    good luck and please just go have fun and don't stress over anything..!!1 week .......?
    If he doesnt like dances i doubt he will dance at all unless you lead, so you choose what you want to do.

    Grinding tips, need guys answers mainly?

    im not very experianced at grinding and im gonna b with a guy who is amazing at it. Any tips on how to grind and things to turn him on while were grinding?Grinding tips, need guys answers mainly?
    riiiiiiiiiight....these are real problems.



    Were you raised in a brothel?

    I need to get over him...PLEASE HELP!!!?

    @ a dance the other night we were dancing %26amp; i asked if he liked me. he said i was hot but not his type %26amp; then he asked 1 of my bffs to dance. so then me %26amp; my other friend found other guys to grind with.



    then @ the afterparty he was hanging out with a group of sl*tty rich girls the whole time who just wanted attention.



    how can i get over him? i know people are going to say i should find another guy but that's kind of hard because i go to a really small school %26amp; there are only 14 guys in my grade.

    %26amp; it's hard for me to forget about him because we're in almost all the same classes. what should i do?



    thanks for you help!I need to get over him...PLEASE HELP!!!?
    wow that sucks. i liked a guy last yr and the only thing that helped me a little was to get away from him 4 good. just try to tell ur self all the bad things hes done and talk urself out of it. i mean hes not worth freaking out over. its hard to get over someone. it takes time.I need to get over him...PLEASE HELP!!!?
    read the book ';He's Just Not That Into You'; , its more for relationship breakups, not just 'he doesnt like me back' stuff, but i know a lot of girls that felt a lot better after reading that book.
    you propbably cant...u shld work on not bitching.step one
    yeah deff. read that book the other girl above me said. i was so attched to someone and i read that book and know im in love with someone else.
    this will sound really harsh, but you have to accept that he isn't into you... also accept that your heart will hurt for a little while, and give yourself time... make a list of reasons he isn't good for you (obviously shallow would be a good one to start with)

    plus it sounds like you're still in high school, and i know you're probably sick of hearing this too, but it doesn't last forever, and in 5 years (if you even remember this) you will laugh...

    there is no good answer, you will be sad, but you will get better

    i've been there LOTS
    You can forget about him

    BUt you can also try to win him back and become ';his type';
    jus fine a better guy at da mall or something
    read the book ';Girl get over him!!!!'; It's good but it would better if it actually xisted!!!!
    well... you can develop an attraction for another guy! just give it a little time!



    look at m! i got my first girlfriend at the age of 19 and shes absolutely perfect in every way! it just took me that long to find the PERFECT one.



    i dont settle for less and it feels so good being so sure about the person your with!
    well 2 move n try n do smethin worth while that will keep ur mind if him knw wat l'm saying jus b busy n let time pass b4 ya knw it his in tha past
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  • How should I dance with guys at homecoming?

    I know how to dance n im pretty good at it.

    But I dont want to get out of control with some guys n them get the wrong idea about me

    So is it ok to grind on a few guys or keep it low key n do a little hip shaking nothing over the top n limited touching

    I have a whole week to figure it outHow should I dance with guys at homecoming?
    Isn't homecoming like a fancy dance? Where you dance like...adults do?How should I dance with guys at homecoming?
    Swivel on your head, whilst waving your arms about all night. That'll do it. Make sure you swivel with intent and desire though. Nobody likes a lazy swiveller.

    How to attract lots of guys at a dance / mixer?

    14.

    freshman in hs.

    5 feet tall %26amp; 85 pounds.

    im a girl :)



    My best friends and I are going to a mixer / dance.



    Most people there grind. I'm going to grind too. the place is kinda like a club for teens, except there isn't any legal drinking and it is a bit less wild.



    How do i get guys to grind with me? (besides asking)

    Last time i went, there were girls who had guys coming up to them almost every song, or had a group of guys around them.



    How can i do that?



    I am a dancer, and i think i can grind fairly well.



    Thanks!

    (oh, and can you please refrain from just saying ';grinding is disgusting/rude/degrading'; or something like that.)How to attract lots of guys at a dance / mixer?
    Well if you want to treat yourself like a piece of meat go ahead. Because that is exactly how guys are going to treat you for the rest of your life.How to attract lots of guys at a dance / mixer?
    just dance with your friends that are girls and then if some guy is hanging around just ask if he want to dance. i was at a teen club last night. most of the girls are dancing with each other and the guys are just standing around or with a girl. The guys want to dance, but they are a little nervous.

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    Did i do anything wrong when i danced with him?

    last night at my honmecoming my best friend and i were dancing. two of our guy friends were next to us just standing there cause they were too embarassed to dance (they said they dont know how) so i took the hand of one of them and turned my back to him giving him the signal to grind with me. and he did. but only for one song. just normal grinding..nothing slutty. so idk if he enjoyed it or not. :/ do guys like grinding? should i have let him make a move instead of me leading him into it? :(Did i do anything wrong when i danced with him?
    Thats hot for a girl to grind us, without us even doing anything! You did the right thing.

    How to get guys to notice me?

    14.

    freshman in hs.

    5 feet tall %26amp; 85 pounds.

    im a girl :)



    My best friends and I are going to a mixer / dance.



    Most people there grind. I'm going to grind too. the place is kinda like a club for teens, except there isn't any legal drinking and it is a bit less wild. it's a dance / mixer for an all boys school.



    How do i get guys to grind with me? (besides asking)

    Last time i went, there were girls who had guys coming up to them almost every song, or had a group of guys around them.



    How can i do that?



    I am a dancer, and i think i can grind fairly well.



    Thanks!

    (oh, and can you please refrain from just saying ';grinding is disgusting/rude/degrading'; or something like that.)How to get guys to notice me?
    Make eye contact with them...simple as that! I'm guessing your fairly attractive, so high school freshmen will probably be intimidated by you. Just do anything to make yourself approachable...pretty, but approachable and smile!!How to get guys to notice me?
    Be yourself.
    Hmm. Guy's tend to like sluts so... show some skin. Wear dark makeup and talk to them, then they might. :)

    Good luck.
    Okay, i understand your situation. First of all before you go to this mixer make sure you smell super good( guys love it). Second, dance with your female friends for a while just to get into the mood. Then go up to a guy and make eye contact nod your head and he should nod back, then turn around and start grinding the night away. After your through grinding with this guy, go back with your friends. By then the guys should be pouring up on you.

    How do u grind?

    well i know how to grind but im just shy. i never did it before and what if i suck and i grind with a hot guy and he hates it...i need confidence in grinding!!How do u grind?
    Just practice in the mirror. Move your hips around and around in a circle until you get a comfortable feel of it. You'll get the hang of it. I learned by watching movies and videos of hot naked bodies, but if you are too young to get videos, then you just have practice by yourself until you get it.



    Oh, get on your knees and place a pillow between your legs and sit on it, then practice moving like I mentioned earlier. You'll get the hang of it! : )How do u grind?
    just practice in the mirror
    girl gofor it it dont matter if a dude likes it or not but most likey he will your a girl and he is a guy come on think a bout that one ;)
    Grinding sends a message about sex that you may not want to send. it is basically a lap dance done while dancing upright. Guys love it because they get their thingy rubbed, and some girls like to rub because, well, it can feel pretty good. It is almost a form of open mastrabation. Just rub your personal self so it feels good, and try to rub his personal self, you'll know by his reaction if you are hitting the spot, and/or you may notice a certain swelling, then you know you are grinding to his liking...now, are you really that kind of girl? That is the major question.
    omg people knew tht i liked this guy so my friend had a party and invited me and my crush and i was like i'll only dance if he comes and than when he came i was to shy and my friend were like make the first move come on and than people were telling him to dance with me i was so embaressed and like in the middle of the party everyone started juking they even made a line girl boy girl boy girl boy and so on when my crush put his hands around my waist his hands felt warm kinda hot lol i was hot from my face but me and him still did it lol hope tht helps
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    well i know how to grind but im just shy. i never did it before and what if i suck and i grind with a hot guy and he hates it...i need confidence in grinding!!How do u grind?
    Just practice in the mirror. Move your hips around and around in a circle until you get a comfortable feel of it. You'll get the hang of it. I learned by watching movies and videos of hot naked bodies, but if you are too young to get videos, then you just have practice by yourself until you get it.



    Oh, get on your knees and place a pillow between your legs and sit on it, then practice moving like I mentioned earlier. You'll get the hang of it! : )How do u grind?
    just practice in the mirror
    girl gofor it it dont matter if a dude likes it or not but most likey he will your a girl and he is a guy come on think a bout that one ;)
    Grinding sends a message about sex that you may not want to send. it is basically a lap dance done while dancing upright. Guys love it because they get their thingy rubbed, and some girls like to rub because, well, it can feel pretty good. It is almost a form of open mastrabation. Just rub your personal self so it feels good, and try to rub his personal self, you'll know by his reaction if you are hitting the spot, and/or you may notice a certain swelling, then you know you are grinding to his liking...now, are you really that kind of girl? That is the major question.
    omg people knew tht i liked this guy so my friend had a party and invited me and my crush and i was like i'll only dance if he comes and than when he came i was to shy and my friend were like make the first move come on and than people were telling him to dance with me i was so embaressed and like in the middle of the party everyone started juking they even made a line girl boy girl boy girl boy and so on when my crush put his hands around my waist his hands felt warm kinda hot lol i was hot from my face but me and him still did it lol hope tht helps

    How to hook-up while dancing?

    If a guy is grinding with a girl, how would he go about hooking up with her? How can he tell if she wants to hook up with him?How to hook-up while dancing?
    hooking up is all phisycal. do mean a relationship? i dunno then. just the regular way.

    I have a grinding question about tall guys?

    im 4'11 and my date is 6'1. i already got the dress and shoes before i figured out who i was going to ask. so now that ive already bought the shoes, i have a problem. their flats. theres no heel to them! how will i grind with him in these? what can i do except buy new shoes?I have a grinding question about tall guys?
    Return the shoes and buy new ones with the money, or borrow a friend's heels. High heel shoes would be a good idea in this case, I must say!I have a grinding question about tall guys?
    Don't grind with him, that's disgusting. It's time to be a big girl and dance like a lady.

    How do you successfully freak/grind w?

    i really want to have sex, but im kinda scared, so i really want to freak/grind with a short guy that i like but i dont wanna embarass myself by not ';doing it'; right. im looking for advice, or just if i should go ahead and have sex anywayHow do you successfully freak/grind w?
    Looking at your questions, you're in middle school. So you shouldn't have sex. And you really shouldn't freak/grind with a guy either. And if you would be embarrassed by doing it wrong with him, then you shouldn't even be dating. You shouldn't be worried about doing something right or wrong if you know he loves you because he's not going to be judging you.



    So my advice is to give it a few years. And if you have sex at this age, you're joining the many throngs of stupid teens. Give yourself some credit and at least know you should wait on that.How do you successfully freak/grind w?
    What does this have to do with newborn/baby???????
    Erm, you asked this in the wrong section sweetheart!
    lol lol lol lol lol lol!





    you dont sound ready. just wait
    Well...first I want to say that it's good that you are scared about having sex. Sex is a big responsibility, bigger than you realize at your age. If there is one thing I wish I could change about my sexual past it would be losing at 17. I do wish I had waited. Maybe not for marriage, but for a partner who I cared about more. Having said that...if you have to ask if you should be having sex, you are not ready.



    Outer-course {as well as masturbation, which is not dirty or unhealthy and most all women do it} is a great way to learn about your sexuality without going too far. But when it comes to grinding {in my younger days we called it dry humping :) } there really is no right or wrong way of doing it. You will find what feels good to you and some of that comes with time and experience. I am sure the boy in question will be just as nervous and scared. I do want to warn you though. Sometimes when things get heated, we go further than we mean to. Remember, if at anytime you are uncomfortable and you want to stop, it's okay to stop. And you should tell him so. It doesn't make you a tease.



    Don't be in a too much of a rush to grow up. You are still young, you have plenty of time for sex when your older.
    Hahaha! You aren't ready. Trust me. You should really wait on this. You'll be glad you did. Don't have sex.

    Okay so what did i do wrong?

    last night at my honmecoming my best friend and i were dancing. two of our guy friends were next to us just standing there cause they were too embarassed to dance (they said they dont know how) so i took the hand of one of them and turned my back to him giving him the signal to grind with me. and he did. but only for one song. just normal grinding..nothing slutty. so idk if he enjoyed it or not. :/ do guys like grinding? should i have let him make a move instead of me leading him into it? :(Okay so what did i do wrong?
    yeahh guys LOVE grinding...but like you said it could have been that he was embarassed because he didnt know what he was doing .
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  • How do you turn on a male? (teenage maybe, 14, 15, 16, 17, 18.)?

    i need to know little tricks to turn guys that I like on, even though my looks, boobs and bootay usually do it. hahaaaha. i just need to know some things. ;D



    ps. when a guy starts grinding with you, does that mean he wants you or whatt? lolll cuz recently i did with this guyyy and he was veryy cute but i wasnt too sure.



    xoxo - thanks.How do you turn on a male? (teenage maybe, 14, 15, 16, 17, 18.)?
    really nice smelling perfume, always look your best, you said you have the butt and boobs so thats good. um just wear nice lip-gloss smell and look nice and that will usually do it. try not to be too slutty though.



    lol, depends where and when the situation of grinding was occurring. if it was at a dance and he was just casually grinding on all girls then it probably meant nothing. but if it was a small dance and he just started grinding on you, he probably thought you were cute and wanted to try things out.How do you turn on a male? (teenage maybe, 14, 15, 16, 17, 18.)?
    be HOT
    Touch his dick. That usually works.
    Seriously? LoL... Just breathe.
    Touch his dick kiss his neck lick his ears

    Do all guys get erections after grinding with a girl?

    And, how does grinding feel to a guy? Not just good, or bad, but describe in detail.Do all guys get erections after grinding with a girl?
    Grindings not as good as groping.. But yeah it feels good.. But guys only tend to get erections if they think the girl thats grinding is rather fit.. I wouldnt get an erection if say i was grinding with my girl mates. But my girlfriend on the other hand. Yeah Grind away all day :)Do all guys get erections after grinding with a girl?
    i would think so, or at least hope so!!!



    it feels like 2 big nice firm but soft balls are being forced against his dick



    so grinding is pretty much sex in public!



    lol



    y? u like grinding guys?




    at start grinding feels so good......like the point when we're just starting to get hard



    but when it's hard and we're still grinding.. it hurts a little bit so
    No, only the heterosexual ones.
    after, and maybe even during.
    of course they do get erections
    sure enough
    of course we do, feels tingly all over

    Guys (girls too!), how can I make grinding better?

    I'm definitely not trying to be cocky (no pun intended hehe) but I would say that dancing is one of my strong suits. However, when I'm grinding with a guy it just seems... I don't know. Not blah, we both certainly enjoy it!, but every girl does it the same! How can I play around with the guy I've been seeing for a little while now? I'm thinking something sexy and cute... sneak in a kiss in an unexpected place perhaps (nothing too dirty, guys :P)?Guys (girls too!), how can I make grinding better?
    keep some distance and sometimes touch him softly with your hands and hips, it allways works :)Guys (girls too!), how can I make grinding better?
    piggie back rides are cute and sexy at the same time especially when danceing
    hah, when i dance i just like to grab his hands and make him feel my legs to the hips :)



    %26amp; usually just laugh and whisper something in his ear ;)
    feel with your hands up and down his legs
    just switch up your dance techniques like turn around and start grinding him and drop it like it's hottt!, just do your thing girl and don't try to be sexy cause it comes off as rehearsed just be natural and have fun thats when it's sexy.
    All grinding is dirty.... its says sex, fck me.

    Its not cute lol.

    I like it when guys do it to me, etheir im gonna sleep with them that night If they was just one of them 'im dress hoochie and act like i put out but i don't' it doesn't matter because she attracted attension to me. :D

    How do you grind dance? Help me out here!?

    Can anyone tell me exactly how do grind? I'm a guy. I'm fourteen and i have a school dance coming up on Friday and this girl wants me to dance with her. I need to know how to approach the her, how you dance, and what i should do with my hands and stuff. Please help!How do you grind dance? Help me out here!?
    It's real easy man. You just grab her hips and follow her lead. Go from side to side with the beat of the music. Don't be too tense either and just have fun. There are variations on freak dancing and stuff, but just go with that and you will learn and get better as time goes on. Be confidentHow do you grind dance? Help me out here!?
    watch Hitch starring Will Smith. If the hands are too high.... just wanna be friends... hands too low... just wanna grab a little sumthin.... nah jk... just tell her u dont really know how to dance..... i didnt at that age... and i turned out to be the best dancer at my school... oh and just go to the beat
    Did she mention grind dancing? Maybe she just means dancing in general, or perhaps slow dancing?



    Grind? Man... that's too raunchy for a 14 yr old. Kids need to stop trying to grow up so fast and enjoy youth and innocence while they can!
    Basically looks like sex with your clothing on. Raunchy if you ask me.

    Is it ok to grind with a girls/guys at a club, while your dating someone?

    Im dating this guy for 2 months now, and he went clubbing (Which he goes every week! and this was my first time going since i met him!) I went there, saw him, had a drink and told him i'll be right back cause I gotta go and get my friends, I came back 5 min later with 4 of my friends and i saw him grinding with a chick.. and from her he went to another one, than another one! He didnt see me till the 3rd chick. He looked up at me.. and one of my gfs waved at him.. He waved back with a big smile on his face.. I looked at my gf and told her ';lets goo'; We left.. he didnt follow or anything! Im really mad at him... Do you think i have a right to be mad? We are dating... But i still dont think its right for him to go around grinding with girls! And how would he feel.. If he saw me grinding with 3 different guys when hes standing there with all his friends? Disrespectful and Not fair :( It also makes me think is that what he does when he goes clubbing? Cause he does go every week!... I dont know.. What do you guys thinkk? Do i have a right to be upset/mad? And what does dating actually mean? Can we date/grind/talk to more than one person???Is it ok to grind with a girls/guys at a club, while your dating someone?
    He danced right in front of you which means he has nothing to hide, it is more than likely an innocent action. But if you really do not like it talk to him about itIs it ok to grind with a girls/guys at a club, while your dating someone?
    You're insecure and jealous. Dancing is not cheating and if I saw my girlfriend dancing with three boys I'd use the opportunity to dance with three girls.
    well i think thats rude but i guess thats what you would do at a club maybe next time you guys go grind with a guys and see what he does
    yes it is not cheating
    You and your bf HAVE to talk about to talk about Grinding rules



    Since you know your bf likes grinding when he is at clubs (and isn't likely to stop) you probably just have to either accept that it is HIS THING then decide if YOU want to get into doing the Grind thing too.(or, if you are REALLY annoyed, threaten to break off)



    What would happen if you told him that if you announced that, from now on, you are going to starrt

    Gringing too? Would your bf be jealous?



    I consider grinding to be Heavy flirting. But dating is Romantic which grinding is not.

    Like you wrote in your message it is easy to grind with many different ppl in the same night.

    It only last for a few minutes.



    Dating MORE than one person is complicated. You have to be honest straight up and say that you are not yet ready to date exclusive. If you pretend to be somebody's bf/gf then get invoved with some other person on the side, that's cheating.
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  • How do I double grind?

    I know how to with one guy but how do you do it with two?! I'm going to a party and I'm going to grind with my two guy friends. Any tips? Thanks!How do I double grind?
    One in front with your leg in between his and one of his betwen yours and the other behind you....Grinding on your thigh and butt....How do I double grind?
    just dance and have fun
    what is that? That doesn't sound like something a young lady should be doing
    .....you'll figure it out.....most ...';loose'; girls do.
    sorry, but, ew.
    Are you asking how to have sex with 2 guys at once?
    Good luck and have fun!
    I would help but... I dont know what grind is.



    Grind = A trick on a skateboard :P
    I THOUGHT IT WAS A STEREOTYPE

    WHY U GOTTA PROVE PEOPLE RIGHT?
    one either side of you? then grind on one, and the othher should grind against you too then turn around and carry on the other way....enjoy
    one of them grinds on your *** and the other one grinds on your :-X
    why dont you be in the middle,and have a guy on each side of you,one in front,and one in back.
    yea...can you clarify...not sure if you're talking about dancing or sex
    What you do is have a guy stand in front of u and have a guy in the back of u and u in the middle but make sure they are really close and just grind!!!!
    Well i think one guy need to be at the back and one in front, and yall just need to try and move to the rhythm, you know,all at once.
    make a sandwich
    eewww
    you must be really really young and dumb, or just a total slutbag.
    so you PLAN what your going to do at a party?

    lame.
    Okay some people answering this question are a little confused. ahaha

    okay well I'll say what a lot of people have already said.

    A sandwich kind of thing. One in front, one in back ?

    I want to know.. which, to be honest,is why I clicked on this question... Sorry ! I didn't help much..

    Good luck %26amp; have fun ! (:
    Er...just like ordinary grinding, but you go in between two guys. Easy.



    (And to all the people who called her a whore or whatever...omg lighten up, its just dancing ffs!)
    Swimfan was right...



    ';One in front with your leg in between his and one of his betwen yours and the other behind you....Grinding on your thigh and butt....';



    also, everyone needs to stop being so judgemental.

    Need an evaluation of an idea for a car, involves tech lasers and cars.?

    So were in the car and some guy blinds us with his fog lights so it gets me thinking. Laser fog lights that way the laser can only be seen on the floor and cant blind people, now obviously you would have to mount the laser unit fairly close to the ground as this way, no one can look into it and be blinded, and any one who does is just an idiot.



    Another obvious point is that you cant get white laser, Why ? because a laser emits one colour of light ( one in step wave length ) and white is a mixture of them all red having a larger wave length then indigo ( which is part of why a rainbow is an arch, red has bigger wavelength and therefor has a bigger arch ) but thats not the point now after some research i found that the colour most recognizable to the human (as such) is of a wavelength of 550 nm ( roughly as i recall) which is a shade of green so the laser unit should emit such colour.



    Now the most prominent (biggest) problem is that 1 laser emits 1 dot of light, So, just like an L.E.D. light unit you would have to have more then one laser, you would have to position them so that each one dot falls right next to the other and considering todays computer technology surely that should be a simple task for an up to date computer right ?



    There is also the problem of cost, How much ? Well lets say hypothetically its posh companies like Bentley, Lamborghini, etc that produce the unit, if people can afford those cars they can afford optional extra's, well lets say this laser fog light unit cost 拢1000 pounds to make, after all there would have to be a fair few lasers right, so one grand well the companies could then sell the unit to the customer as an optional extra for say 拢 2000 to 拢 3500 pounds thinking sensibly as this would offer a 100% to 250% profit on each unit so therefore they would make more then enough money and since the price range isn't over the top people wont be put off by the price.



    So how does this idea sound ? Stupid ? Waste of time and money ? Convenient ? Amazing ? Please reply with worries and issues that would have to be solved as well as your feed back.



    Thank you so much, there may also be other ideas coming out so keep a watch please.Need an evaluation of an idea for a car, involves tech lasers and cars.?
    You have a good idea, but the bottom line has to be to teach drivers how to use rear fog lights.



    When driving in fog, use your lights, but if you have a vehicle behind you, and you can see it, then turn them off. They can now see you, so you do not need to blind them.

    Questions for anybody whose ever kicked a guy in the balls or been kicked (i'm buging out about it)?

    i pulled a stupid. i grabbed this girls chest when we got off the bus. it was mostly a dare. i ran before she could do anything, and at the time it was all pretty funny. anyway, my sister (who thinks i desrve it) found out that if the girl gets the chance, she's kicking me in the balls. not only have i never been kicked in the bals by a girl before, i've enver even been hit there. like, not even fallen on my bike or jumping a fence or anything. i'm really nerve wracked on it - if she realy does it, it'll be the first time i ever been hit in the balls. in one way, i can't immagine anything being as bad as they say it is. so i'm kind of not scared- but real scared that it is that bad. heres my questions:



    1. do guys really always go to the ground? why? can it be helped? is it better to go down or to try to fight it? for how long?



    2. do guys really walk funny after? why? for how long?



    3. i guese what i'm really looking to know is, can you fake it not hurting so she doesn't get any satisfaction from it?



    4. if i do go down, what does the girl do while the guy is down there? i mean, if the guy is down there for five minuites, thats a long time just hanging around with a guy on the ground. do girls usually just walk away and leave you there? what if its someplace like the bus stop where they can't?



    4. does it make you think different about things? like, after you get kicked by a girl for the first time, do you see girls diferent? the thought of my balls getting booted by a girl andme looking like a clown on tv is messing with my mind now - you think it actually happening will mess with my mind? how so?



    thanks for any help.Questions for anybody whose ever kicked a guy in the balls or been kicked (i'm buging out about it)?
    Okay, here's what happens:



    You will be hit with an immediate flash of blinding pain, that will last several seconds, and then settle into a dull throb at the pit of your stomach that makes you want to throw up and die. This lasts for about half an hour.



    Take it like a man. You deserve it.Questions for anybody whose ever kicked a guy in the balls or been kicked (i'm buging out about it)?
    hahahahaha

    im sorry i know i shouldn't laugh but i just can't believe you managed to find like 300 words for this question!!!

    thats bloody hilarious!
    you are fool. first you assault a girl by grabbing her breasts and now you worry about the retaliation? in fact you aren't really worrying about the retaliation, you are worried about how you will look. If she kicks you in the nuts you deserve it. If she gets you good you will go down and there will be no hiding how much it hurts. Hell if she kciks you good enough she could actually maim you, you may never have children.



    Maybe you should have thought about the repercussions of violating her BEFORE. You are lucky she hasnt filed a police complaint. Think how stupid you would look getting arrested for sexual assault.
    if i were u i wouldn't be worried about the pain (kicked in the balls). i would be more worried about if she is going to press charges against u for sexual assault...which she can... you could be going to court.... have fun.. i hope that the dare was worth getting a record...
    i punched my boyfriend in the balls one day and he coughed and gagged for about 30 minutes afterwards...



    see, i pretty much said what billy just said
    I've heard that it hurts extremely bad. it's like getting punched in the stomache. it knocks the wind out of you and you are in pain for a while. i don't think that you will be able to fake not hurting.