Sunday, November 14, 2010

URGENT PLEASE HELP GIRLS AND GUYS?

ok. i like this guy that im sorry to say, but never met before. we are friends on facebook and we text eachother all the time. he really shows interest in me as well (showing he cares and that he wants to be with me). at first i thought it was really sweet! im going to a party on friday and hes going to be there so i can finally meet him! but now everything hes saying seems kind of creepy, but i know he just wants to be nice. and im supposed to LEARN HOW TO GRIND ON GUYS BY THEN TOO! please help:(URGENT PLEASE HELP GIRLS AND GUYS?
yeah hes a pedophile ,hope you dont get raped. also dont set your drink down...it will probably get druggedURGENT PLEASE HELP GIRLS AND GUYS?
listen closelly...DO NOT UNDER ANY CIRCUMSTANCE GO TO THIS PARTY. THE DUDE IS A MOLESTOR, NO MATTER WHAT HE SAYS. YOU DO NOT NEED TO LEARN HOW TO GRIND ON SOME DUDE THAT YOU DO NOT EVEN KNOW. PLEASE LISTEN AND DO WHAT I AM TELLING YOU OR YOU WILL REGRET IT. this dude is just plain scary, and i would stay as far away as possible
hmm
have fun but be very careful, he might turn out to be a wackjob
If you think he is creepy meet him with a friend there. Make sure one of your friends is there with you the whole time or just don't go.
Learn how to grind on guys?



What are you a wh.ore? I don't think so?



Word of advice sweetheart, and don't just read what I'm about to tell you, understand it



';Don't trust everything a guy says';



Do you know nearly 75% of the crap guys tell you are lies?



Exactly, so think before you act
u do realize he might be a random 40 yr old perv. i wouldnt do that if i were u. just stop everything. im sorry but... u really shouldnt keep going with this guy.
go to the party witout high expectations. chances are he might not be the person he made you believe he is. talk to him as much as possible at the prty
so you want us to teach you how to grind?



uuhhh... thats kind of hard.
Go with another friend guy or girl and tell em not to leave your side. And don't grind!
idk wut to saY
u tell this ***** straight up, ';yo i ain't suppose to learn to do nothin i don't wanna do until i say so.';



u gotta be careful who u meet on the internet yo. fa sho. but if u wanna meet me ill teach ya how to properly grind all over me ma ya dig. holla at me.
sounds like some middle school drama. i wouldnt go to the party it is dangerous to meet people you meet on the internet! dont you listen to anything adults say?!
1. Be careful, the guy might actually be a 45 year old pedophile.

2. If you need help grinding, just practice on me. : )
Be yourself. You dont have to grind on him if you dont want to.
There's a 95% chance that your gonna get raped. Hope that helps!
Whoa, whoa, whoa.



I really don't see the question in all of this. What are you asking?



And there's a difference between nice and creepy. My current relationship started the same way, and the guy was always being nice. I never thought anything he texted me or said to me on the phone was creepy.



As for the grinding thing, just don't do it. Don't be skanky. There are plenty of ways to dance that are loads more fun and not as gross.
What kind of creepy things is he saying?

If you're freaked out, stick with a friend and come up with a signal so she can whisk you away if you feel uncomfortable.

Don't worry about the grinding - just try to keep with the beat of the music. Most guys look terrible and don't know what to do either. Just have fun!
id say go ahead and meet him but stay away from anything sexual he wants to do. learn how to grind only if u want to and not just for him. if he seems really creepy just get away from him. (go home/ to another part of the party area).
yeah i wouldn't go if i were you.... there are some creepy people out there and you really don't want to run into them.if i were you, i would not go, 'specially if he has been acting kind 'creepy' lately. listen to your conscience. thats all i have to say. if you feel uncomfortable get the HECK out of there IMMEDIATELY.
i've been in the same situation before. sometimes you just need some space between you and the other person.



ps.. grinding on guys is way easy! just rub your booty on the guys naughty place lol
make sure you dont go anywhere alone with him during the party if u are so creeped out. but he should be nice. idk what to tell u tho. have a good time. DONT GRIND ON ANYONE
SOMETHING deep down in your gut/instincts/intuition/soul is TELLING you that something is not quite normal. Otherwise, you would not have felt inspired to use the word ';creepy';... that is a serious word and should be taken seriously. If you fail to listen to your own intuition, you could wind up getting yourself into a very dangerous situation. Furthermore, this will not ever be the kind of relationship you desire. No guy that cares would expect you to go to a party like this to meet for the first time. He would respect you and want to meet in a better fashion. This is not worth it. You do not ever need to learn how to grind on guys... this sounds more like a user/creep than a potential love. Please don't go and I recommend cutting ties... and protecting your identity/privacy for SAFETY. Please listen to us... Im a young, beautiful girl and I WOULD NOT GO. :)
well just be sure hes not fake and a molester.



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take a friend with you. but if he gets all weird then book it!! (get outta there)
are you high school? ..... ok. Grind on guys? by that do you mean like grind-dance? When you see him at the party, go over and talk to him and hug and and be all happy to see him. The key is this. To be in control, you have to balance showing you like a guy, but at the same time not being to desperate or else he will think you are easy and take advantage of you. Trust me, this is coming from a guy who will take advantage of any situation where i know a girl really likes me. Just hang out with him, but never seem obessed with him or needy. Talk a bit, and if you wanna ';make out'; as you kids do, then find a quiet spot to talk with him. **** him if you want also and send me a copy of the tape please.
when you read you put in your head the sense to the words, for example a joke can be so funny if you read it but if a guy that just don't like you tell you the same joke im sure this will not cause fun on you, take your time to meet him and may what you think is creepy is not
Sorry to say girl he is creepy and the fact that you get that vibe is a warning . He's probly 30 years old using a teens picture to hook you. So many girls have been killed because of meeting a guy on the internet . You are so beautiful and deserve a real guy you get to know in life and not online . He can make up whatever he wants and he will tell you what you want to hear cuz guys r like that. Who knows what he has on his mind to do to you. And the fact he talks dirty to you sounds alarming don't grind on no 1 you just meet he sounds like a dirty old man . Stay safe and meet a guy ur age that you know who his family is and respects you for you not cuz of sex or grinding. P.s ur so pretty remember that p.ss people who are answering this question give good sound advice. Not crap she shouldn't meet that perv. With a friend either what can a friend do if she gets taken against her will
Omg!! im in like the exact situation execept i have like a month! Make sure he doesn't have a girlfriend thats gonna be there because that will seriously screw things up! Also i know this sounds stupid but deffinately learn from a friend or older sister how to grind because that is an important life skill! Don't be scared to ask how to, its better than that guy asking you to dance and you sucking at it!! Good Luck, I hope it goes well!!
Have you ever watched those shows where girls get kidnapped my guys of of Facebook and Myspace? People take for granted that its not happening to them bt it could be. So think it through PAUSE ll

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