Am I overreacting? Girlfriend Question?

I posted a question a while ago about my girlfriend going to parties and whatnot without me. Thankfully, we've been able to move forward and I'm now fine with her going without me, but now we've run into a new problem.





She usually goes out with her roommates (2 girls), and I usually go with them, as I have a car and can be the designated driver. Now, her roommates aren't exactly beacons of morality. One of them had given a guy a hand-job on their first date while simultaneously talking to another guy she ';really liked'; and is now dating. As far as I know, he has no idea. The other has cheated on a guy only about 2 weeks after getting together with him. I've made it clear that I don't like how either of them think and act and I'm not sure they're the best influence, but that's not the point.





The problem I'm having is that my girlfriend is a bit of a hypocrite. I've told her it makes me sick to my stomach to think about her grinding on another guy, and she says it makes her sick to think about me doing it with another girl. We also talked about how she had told me she wanted to get guy's phone numbers at parties and clubs so she ';had someone to ask when we're looking for parties,'; and I've made it clear I wasn't OK with this, and she said it was fine and she wouldn't. But Saturday, she went out, having just had this conversation with me about 8 hours earlier, and not only grinded on another guy, but gave him her number, and while they were dancing, he apparently started kissing her neck and whatnot.





Now, she's already told me that I'm right, and she shouldn't have given her number in the way that she did. She also said she's ';seriously considering'; not grinding on guys anymore, but she says she's still gonna get phone numbers. We've kinda stopped talking about it for now, today. But I just wanted to get some opinions on it. Am I overreacting about her dancing? What about the phone number stuff? Or am I justified in being upset over all this?





Thanks in advance for your help.Am I overreacting? Girlfriend Question?
Some what justified however, your relationship will likely not last very long. I say get some numbers, ';grind'; on girls, kiss their necks, tell her two cronies to beat feet and put your girl on the back burner. Don't get all tied up in the BS.Am I overreacting? Girlfriend Question?
alright i was thinking you were overreacting until i saw that she was 'grinding' on some guy, and i also think you are a bit controlling trying to choose her friends for her, although you have a point about them being a bad influence on her. you need to just ask yourself, are you really right for eachother? in my opinion you aren't - she wants to lead the single person lifestyle; grinding on guys and giving them her number, and you want something more serious with someone who is a bit more loyal. if i were you, i'd dump her, but it's your call.
No, I don't think you are overreacting. She is misleading these guys w/ her actions. She needs to really reconsider her actions, and most importantly needs to stop giving guys her number. That is not right. Would she be ok w/ you giving other girls your number?
You're in your right to be upset. She wouldn't like it if you were grinding up some girls and giving them your phone number. Does she grind on guys for attention? Either way, that's not right. She's not respecting herself nor is she respecting your relationship. What are the guys that are grinding up your girl going to think about you? They are going to think your girl doesn't respect or care for you. Your girl is leaving the door open for them. You need to watch out. For sure they wouldn't want you grinding up their girl. They'd probably fight with you. You know how it is. Obviously, by you allowing it, is not right. Get upset and put your foot down. One of the guys can win her heart and she's allowing it. Not only her, you too. It's not because you're jealous or insecure. It's just very disrespectful. She should give you the same respect that you give her. It's only fair. You have to set some boundaries about what is acceptable and what's not. It's like dry sex or whatever it's called. Rubbing is involved. They feel each other. Good Luck!