Do i Have a Depression?

I'm sorry this is long but i really need help right now!



I'm 16 years old and recently my mom passed away and it made me sad like you wouldn't believe

For a few years before she died though i was always really sad because i could never get a girlfriend.

A few days ago i asked the girl i really like out and she said yes, i thought that this would make me feel better and it started to.

But the same day i asked her out we started talking about a school dance and she said that she dosent like to bring dates to dances because she likes to ';grind'; with other guys, but no matter what she does at dances her date is always more important.

She said we can go together as long as i don't mind seeing her dance with other guys



I didnt say anything but i cant stand picturing her and some other guy grinding!

It gets me so sad and i cant do anything about it

I never usually go to these dances because i never had a date but now when i hae a girlfriend it feels like she dosent want me there



My grades have been falling and i cant even remember the last time i was really happy

It feels like my mom was the only person who truely cared about me but now shes gone, and my girlfriend who i have liked for a very long time, it seems like she dosent even care enough about me to go to a school dance with me!



I'm so stressed out and i miss my mom and that stupid school dance is stressing me out like you wouldnt believe!

I'm in grade 11 too so universities are looking at my grades and their terrible!



I don't know what to do right now

I want to talk to my girlfriend but shes on a trip until monday so i cant but that dance has been driving me crazy!



Please someone help me with this you have no idea how stressed out i am!Do i Have a Depression?
Your jealousy will cause you to loose her. She's honest with you--up front about wanting to g**** with other guys. That's becasue she likes the attention it gets her. But she's doing it in front of you not behind your back. AND she tells you up front rather than have you find out when you get to the dance! Just dance with other gals and don't worry. She'll drop you like a hot potatoe if you let it bug you. It's innocent. She's not cheating. I hate to say it this way, but you gotta grow up a bit more.



So sorry you lost your best friend, your Mom. Not good. I can't imagine how bad that hurts. What would she say to you after reading this post? Think about it.

Go, have fun, don't worry, be happy!Do i Have a Depression?
If I were you, I would seek a psychiatrist or a counsel group to get help so you can feel better and again. I would also, for your 'Girlfriend' situation, just tell her how you feel, and if she ignores you, tell her she's a whore and she doesn't deserve you. Also find a nicer, cleaner girl to go with you.
I recommend you check out this social networking community called LetsReflect.com. There are people there going through situations similar to yours. They are great for advice and encouragement.



The process of “Self Reflection” has truly changed my life….here’s my profile. http://www.letsreflect.com/profile.php?u…



This is a journey….not a quick fix. The trick is staying positive and surrounding yourself with positive people. You are capable of great things! I believe in you. Best of luck.
with the girlfriend part, I'm also 16 and i have never had a girlfriend either.