Ladies, when you go clubbing, do you grind with guys? Hook up?

Go all the way? Ultimately, SHOULD A GIRL CARRY A CONDOM IF SHE鈥橲 PARTYING EVEN IF SHE HAS NO INTENTION OF HOOKING UP?



I used to go out to the clubs, and often enough we hooked up with girls on girls nights out that we knew had or most likely had boyfreinds - or more (as in, my freind hooked up with a chick with a ring). it wasn't that they were disatisfied, but we showed them some excitement and sometimes it paid off. those were crazier days for me - and i don't live like that anymore - but there were certainly guys who were way better at scoring than i was. worst part, it was sometimes - but not always - EASY with ordinary not slutty girls. once you got them having fun with you and turned on with talk and dancing, the deal often went down.



Now, my gf goes out with her freinds about once a month, often dancing at a club. I trust her and everything, but we hardly have sex like we used to, and she drinks a little, and i think she's hot enough to draw a player's attention once in a while. my freind and i were remarking - it sure would be better if they had protection. i mean, isn't there a certain likelihood it would happen and we'd never know? and isn't it better to not find out than to find out through an std?



So I was thinking of asking if she carried one, and suggest that she do carry one 鈥?but I don't know how that'll go over.Ladies, when you go clubbing, do you grind with guys? Hook up?
My first question is... Are you cool with your girlfriend having sex with random guys? If so, then ask her to carry a condom around. Like if some fool I was dating came up to me and was like, ';Uhhh take this with you.'; I would probably tell him to F Off and leave me alone.



Now that we that out of the way. You must not trust your girlfriend, so why are you still with her?



I will tell you straight up, if I go to bars with my friends and end up dancing with boys then it's pretty much open season. Things get touched when you dance. She is out having a good time while you are at home doing whatever. I am not going to win best answer here, am I?



Anyways. My advice to you, unless you have an open relationship and you suspect her of cheating, she probably is. Like I just know if you are not providing her with what she needs then she will find it elsewhere. I am not just talking about sex. Maybe you don't act as you did when you first started dating and now other guys are making her feel special. I dunno. Doesn't sound good.



Oh, but I do suggest girls carry condoms if they think they may hook up because you cannot trust boys to have them. Then you are just taking chances on where he's played ball before.Ladies, when you go clubbing, do you grind with guys? Hook up?
stop being paranoid, be more secure inur relationship. if she is with u its bc shes in love and going out once a month is girls night. allow her that.
... go with her