Ladies, when you go clubbing, do you grind with guys? Hook up?

Go all the way? Ultimately, SHOULD A GIRL CARRY A CONDOM IF SHE鈥橲 PARTYING EVEN IF SHE HAS NO INTENTION OF HOOKING UP?



I used to go out to the clubs, and often enough we hooked up with girls on girls nights out that we knew had or most likely had boyfreinds - or more (as in, my freind hooked up with a chick with a ring). it wasn't that they were disatisfied, but we showed them some excitement and sometimes it paid off. those were crazier days for me - and i don't live like that anymore - but there were certainly guys who were way better at scoring than i was. worst part, it was sometimes - but not always - EASY with ordinary not slutty girls. once you got them having fun with you and turned on with talk and dancing, the deal often went down.



Now, my gf goes out with her freinds about once a month, often dancing at a club. I trust her and everything, but we hardly have sex like we used to, and she drinks a little, and i think she's hot enough to draw a player's attention once in a while. my freind and i were remarking - it sure would be better if they had protection. i mean, isn't there a certain likelihood it would happen and we'd never know? and isn't it better to not find out than to find out through an std?



So I was thinking of asking if she carried one, and suggest that she do carry one 鈥?but I don't know how that'll go over.Ladies, when you go clubbing, do you grind with guys? Hook up?
I agree, I always carry protection.

Duh...

You must be like really young?Ladies, when you go clubbing, do you grind with guys? Hook up?
Only if you want her to go out and sleep with someone. Asking her to carry a condom is like giving her permission to go out and do it! If your cool with that than go ahead. I don't know any guy that would encourage their lady to carry a condom. You're asking for trouble, buddy! Don't do it! Are you sure you trust her? Doesn't sound like it if you're asking her to carry a condom.
Wow. Well when i use to go out (can't i'm pregnant) i use to grind on guys but never took it anything further but i know certain girls who did so yes i would suggest to carry a condom b/c you may not be that ';type'; of girl but you just never know and it is rather to be safe than sorry especially when carrying a condom is of no inconvience.

As for your gf, she's going to take it as you don't trust her b/c you're basically oking it for her to carry a condom in case she decides to hook up so that you don't get an STD. Yes, that is serious but you should trust her....

I think its rather to be safe then find out with an STD.
First of all props to you man you have your head on your shoulders and know what's up. Sounds like you have a really good relationship which is rare here haha.



Now about your situation. That's a very dangerous suggestion you want to give her. She can take it any number of ways, and a lot of them are not good. Think carefully about how you want to word it to her. I think if you let her know it's not a trust thing and that you're not accusing her of anything, that it's more of a precautionary measure, it might be ok. Good luck man.