When you go clubbing, do you grind with guys? Hook up?

when you go clubbing, do you grind with guys? Hook up?

Go all the way? Ultimately, SHOULD A GIRL CARRY A CONDOM IF SHE鈥橲 PARTYING EVEN IF SHE HAS NO INTENTION OF HOOKING UP?



I used to go out to the clubs, and often enough we hooked up with girls on girls nights out that we knew had or most likely had boyfreinds - or more (as in, my freind hooked up with a chick with a ring). it wasn't that they were disatisfied, but we showed them some excitement and sometimes it paid off. those were crazier days for me - and i don't live like that anymore - but there were certainly guys who were way better at scoring than i was. worst part, it was sometimes - but not always - EASY with ordinary not slutty girls. once you got them having fun with you and turned on with talk and dancing, the deal often went down.



Now, my gf goes out with her freinds about once a month, often dancing at a club. I trust her and everything, but we hardly have sex like we used to, and she drinks a little, and i think she's hot enough to draw a player's attention once in a while. my freind and i were remarking - it sure would be better if they had protection. i mean, isn't there a certain likelihood it would happen and we'd never know? and isn't it better to not find out than to find out through an std?



So I was thinking of asking if she carried one, and suggest that she do carry one 鈥?but I don't know how that'll go over.

1 week agoWhen you go clubbing, do you grind with guys? Hook up?
Sure, if you want to be like a common alley cat.



Have some morals, people!When you go clubbing, do you grind with guys? Hook up?
Aren't you just inviting her to cheat on you if you tell her to carry a condom? :/ To be honest, most women DO carry protection around with them (whether in a relationship or not) just for the hell of it! We might not even have any intention of actually USING it; we just carry it around anyway.

Personally, I'd never get with a guy I met at a club on the first night; it's disgusting and I KNOW I'm worth more than a one night stand with some horny kid :/
DUDE! Seriously, you need to get some lessons on ';If you think your girl is going to bed with guys she meets at the club!'; First off me being a girl, I would most definitely think that you would confront her on it. AND NOT SUPPORT HER ON IT!!! Gee. I'm not crawling your *** or n e thing but that's not really a relationship if that's gonna happen but if you love her that much then more power to you!!! But if I was you in your shoes, I wouldn't be tellin' her that kind of stuff, I'd be tryin to arouse her and try to make it be a better sex life with her. I'd watch her for a while. But not support her on going out with guys she meets at the club. I'm sry but that isn't cool. But I hope everything works out for you.