Thursday, October 21, 2010

What does it mean when a guy grinds you while making out?

So I've noticed while my boyfriend and I make out he tends to grind my hips with his. No matter how we're sitting/laying, he always tries to have that contact going on between us.

Now I don't mind it, but I was hoping I could get advice from guys to find out how to politely ask him to stop without ruining the mood? And if he's at it, how can I make it more pleasurable for him?What does it mean when a guy grinds you while making out?
If he's grinding on you while kissing you, he wants more passionate kissing, and a step further. Meaning he wants hot making out, perhaps oral sex, and perhaps real sex (not all at once). Any sort of heavy physicality about a make-out session indicates that he wants things to get hot. It's not that hard to figure out.



You will ruin the moment with him if you ask him to stop mid make-out. But let him know you aren't ready for sex at a different time. Tell him you'd like to take it slowly. If you want to make it pleasurable but don't want to give up your hot box, you can French-Kiss, or kiss him on the neck, nibble his earlobe, give him soft bites on the chest, etc. But watch because these things usually lead to more, and could result in him being blue-balled and feeling like you are just teasing him. Be open to communication and tell him what you are/are not ready for.



And on your own, try talking to someone who cares about you about why you feel insecure about moving things to the next level with your boyfriend. Maybe it's fear thats holding you back, maybe it's the fear of ';loss of control';. If you feel like if you let things move faster that he will use you and move on, that should be communicated with someone who has knowledge of these things, like a parent or a counselor. It's normal, a lot of people have these insecurities that hold them back. If it's your religion or tradition thats holding you back, talk to your boyfriend about taking it slow and tell him why. Be honest and open and willing to compromise creatively.What does it mean when a guy grinds you while making out?
He's doing that because he's horny. I'm not sure what the rest of your question is, because first you ask how to get him to stop, then you ask how to make it more pleasurable. If you don't want him to do it, ask him not to, tell him it makes you uncomfortable. If you want to make it more pleasurable for him, grind back or grab his butt and push him into you. If you REALLY want to make it more pleasurable for him, move past making out and onto erm...other things.
he is obviously turned on and wants you to feel his penis. if you two aren't sexually active, he probably hopes by you feeling his erection you will get turned on and want to have sex.
He wants you BAD. lol I wouldn't say anything.. just slightly push him away. If he doesn't stop just tell him you are not comfortable with that. Or admist kissing just say, ';no'; or ';stop.';

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