How to grind dance when you are the guy and your shy?

okay so im in high school and the prom is coming up soon and i have no idea how to grind or even dance!!! i do not feel comftorable at all since i am very very shy. i guess you can say im really attractive since last year tons of girls were asking to dance but i said no since im shy and i dont know how to dance or grind. and i dont want to stay home for prom or go to prom and just be a loner because then i will feel like a loser. please tell me how to grind because that is how everyone at my school dances. and please give me advice on how to not be so shy also. i am really not looking forward to prom because of this and 2 girls have already asked me to prom. and please no one say that grinding is inappropriate because if you think that you are pretty outdated with society and highschoolHow to grind dance when you are the guy and your shy?
Well, I'm not saying grinding is ';inappropriate'; but if you're a shy guy, steer clear of grinding sluts. I know this sounds stupid and boring, but if you're not comfortable dancing, try slow dancing first. Just tryin to help...How to grind dance when you are the guy and your shy?
Okay well grinding isn't that hard for the guys, we pretty much do all the work lol. So i hope you know the basics lol. She's in front your in back. Now we do all the work the guys pretty much just stand behind sway with the beat and look down at her butt lol. (this is what he meant by inappropriate people) if she starts to drop low then you take her hand you hold Your arm out over her shoulder(make sure your arm isn't resting on her shoulder) and pretty much drop slowly but sort of thrust forward a tad.. and make sure your still swaying to the beat. As for dancing identify what you mean.. slow dancing? Or step dances like the soulja boy, cupid shuffle, two step and walk it out?
THIS IS A LOT BUT IT WORKS AND I HAVE USED, LEARNED, AND SEEN IT ALL



good question and i understand you predicament one of my friends had this same problem last year.



i am a great grind dancer and a junior in highschool.



first off you need to take it easy most girls are just as apprehensive as you are. one major question that seems to have no wrong answer to and that is discussed a lot is whether or not to get a ***** while grinding it seems important but it isn't as important as you would think, if you are dancing with a friend i highly discourage it, but with a date or someone you meet on the dance floor then its cool. most girls like to feel something, and take it as a compliment. if they do like it you are gunna score big.



ok back to the basics



standard grinding is most commonly understood as a girl with her butt on your junk, with your hands on the sides of her hips and her hands in the air, on your hips, on your ***, holding your hands, directing your hands where to go, ect... she can do pretty much anything with them. after about one song if she doesn't pull away then its ok to move your hands around to her belly/waist, take it slow and if she moves them back respect that. keep your his pressed to hers and move in a cicular motion or side to side with her body, not against it unless she is purposely trying to create friction by moving up and down with her butt. if she just drops down slowly with her whole body then go down with her.



intermidiate to more advanced



if you have really clicked with her and have been dancing for 5-6 songs she might turn around and start dancing front to front, you can put your hands around her hips or her butt, she will have one leg in between yours and you the same with her, she will either put her arms around your neck or shoulders and someimes your waist. the longer you grind like this the closer you can get ultimately ending in a ';dance-hug'; grind completely wraped around eachother. (ps. front grinding is a great way to kiss, makeout, grope if you are in a relationship and both of you are ok with it) never press anyone into something they don't want to do. she might lead you to switch back to regular grinding keep it fresh unless you want to take it further than dancing.



advanced/relationship material



if she is your date to a formal dance and you both like eachother and a relationship could spawn from it then you have more ground to work with, but once again do not cross boundaries unless the girl gives you signals. such as.. if you are regular grinding and she puts her arms striaght up into the air and keeps them there you have the go ahead to move your hands up her arms and depending on the circumstances over her boobs, but with out stopping. if you have been dancing for over 5 songs you can move your hands slowly, very slowly and gradually down from her belly onto her thighs, and inner thighs but don't touch her crotch unless she gives the ok and don't vebally ask her she will move your hands there or onto her boobs if she wants that. never ever touch a girl if she doesn't tell you to her self or move your hands. you can do the same with her when you grind from the front.



though i have seen it i don't think it is the time or the place to be having sex on the dance floor, if its prom save it for the limo or hote room, don't be an idiot and use this advice well go to a prliminary event such as homecoming or a different dance before prom to try basic grinding and get comfortable with it.



good luck