Girls, especially older teens in the UK, can you read and answer my question please?

Are YOU personally looking for a relationship with a guy. I feel like girls these days are only looking for sex and only sex and to jump from guy to guy.



im not some geeky guy or anything, im relatively good looking and out going (im not trying to blow my own trumpet or anything) but i put a lot of importance on sex and value it highly, but not in the way i think most guys do. I value sex as in a special connection between two people.



it just seems like most girls want to go to clubs, get free drinks off guys, starting grinding with some hot guys, go and get f*cked senseless and then the next week do that same thing all over again with different guys.



Being honest, how true would you say this is? Do you want a relationship, or just a fun fling?



thanks for answeringGirls, especially older teens in the UK, can you read and answer my question please?
me personally would just love a relationship, id only want sex when im ready and when i feel its the right guy. Yeh i want it to be special and like theres a connection 2, u no. My friends would want a relationship too, not all girls just want a fun fling, honestly. so id say most girls do wnt a relationship, someone to b thr, etc, not just sum1 to hav a quickie with. hpe this helped. XXXGirls, especially older teens in the UK, can you read and answer my question please?
im not an older teen

but when i am old enough to go to clubs i dont wanna be like that



i think relationships are important
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Not all girls are the same. Some do want what you described above; others really want a loving relationship where you can have lots of fun and sex but it means something, like you said, it's a special connection. Girls that want a new guy every week and want free drinks etc. will mostly be found at clubs and bars, places like that. If you want a relationship and not just a fling, one should try meeting girls in places other than that. Me, personally, I always look for relationships. Flings just aren't my thing.



You sound like a really nice guy - good luck finding a nice girl who deserves you :)
yea i know girls that would just rather have sex and i know girls that are looking for serious relationships. Its the same thing with guys too. And i agree that sex should be between two people who truly care about eachtother.

BTW:any chance you can come to the U.S.?

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i believe relationships are very important
Honestly, I consider myself to be one of those females that naturally crave the male gender. Although, I believe that if two people are going to be sexually intimate then they should be in a relationship or have a really strong connection. I could never sleep around with random people for fun!



What's so fun about possibly (most likely) catching diseases?
I am an older teen and i would say that you should steer clear of girls who are like this. There are plenty of us who really do want a relationship with a guy and not just a good f*ck.
i don't go to clubs and 'grind' and have one night stands and get drunk senseless, thats so tacky. i have morals and i respect myself and i'm also saving myself until i'm married, as i also belive it's something to be shared between two committed people.

we're not all sl*ts you know!
I'm 17, and yeah that's true. Most people I know are like that, but personally I'm with you. So yeah there are girls who want a serious relationship, just not as many. A lot of girls love going to clubs etc etc but when they find a guy they really like they do calm down and it can be serious, so don't give up.