When you go clubbing, do you grind with guys? Hook up?

when you go clubbing, do you grind with guys? Hook up?

Go all the way? Ultimately, SHOULD A GIRL CARRY A CONDOM IF SHE鈥橲 PARTYING EVEN IF SHE HAS NO INTENTION OF HOOKING UP?



I used to go out to the clubs, and often enough we hooked up with girls on girls nights out that we knew had or most likely had boyfreinds - or more (as in, my freind hooked up with a chick with a ring). it wasn't that they were disatisfied, but we showed them some excitement and sometimes it paid off. those were crazier days for me - and i don't live like that anymore - but there were certainly guys who were way better at scoring than i was. worst part, it was sometimes - but not always - EASY with ordinary not slutty girls. once you got them having fun with you and turned on with talk and dancing, the deal often went down.



Now, my gf goes out with her freinds about once a month, often dancing at a club. I trust her and everything, but we hardly have sex like we used to, and she drinks a little, and i think she's hot enough to draw a player's attention once in a while. my freind and i were remarking - it sure would be better if they had protection. i mean, isn't there a certain likelihood it would happen and we'd never know? and isn't it better to not find out than to find out through an std?



So I was thinking of asking if she carried one, and suggest that she do carry one 鈥?but I don't know how that'll go over.

1 week agoWhen you go clubbing, do you grind with guys? Hook up?
yeah, its smart to always be prepared but if you tell her to carry condoms isn't that like condoning her cheating, its not very fair to you, i do meet guys and grind and dance and have fun but my hubby is usually there too, and its all cool, he knows who im going home with so he doesnt get upset, he knows im a big flirt and like to have fun, but we do respect each others feelings tooWhen you go clubbing, do you grind with guys? Hook up?
If you offered me a condom, I would take that as permission to cheat on you whether I used it or not. I would want a guy who told me if I cheated on him he would be pissed and leave. My guy wouldn't be going dancing with the guys either, he would go with me.
Well I never used to pick up guys , only girls (even though I am bisexual) but I always carried a dam (or a condom that I could split down the middle and use like a dam, anyway), you know just in case ;) I agree with you people should carry around protection.

Why don't you go out to the club with your girlfriend?

You could grind with her on the dance floor! I don't hook up anymore because I like you am in a relationship. I don't carry protection because I don't need it. I just will never cheat on my partner. If you trust her then you should have no problems.
If you ask her that question you are a dead man!!

she will feel like you don't trust her and your life will not be worth living mate



plus by telling her to carry protection when she is going out is almost like giving her permission or saying that you are expecting her to cheat on you!!

It is a really bad idea

And if you are feeling like that, to be honest, why are you with some one you think would cheat on you?

Good luck

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