Grinding dance party help!?

okay, so my friend invited me to go to his friend's party with him. It's going to be fun except i'm worried about a few things. One that i only know 2 people going and they're both guys and will probably be dancing with other girls two its a grinding dance party and i've never grinded before and i'm afraid that guys won't want to dance with me and i'll be akwardly sitting in the corner. so here are my questions

1. how do you get a guy to grind with you?

2. what do you do after you're done grinding with a guy?

3. what do you wear to those parties (it's just a big house party)Grinding dance party help!?
first of all when you get there you should see how other people are dancing and you should copy them however don't copy there exact moves as you don't want to look foolish. to get a guy to dance with you, you should dance with your friends and dance near 2 a group of guys and one of them will defiantly dance with you.after your done grinding with a guy u should just say you need a drink then go of and dance with your friends of if the guys wants too you could lips him but that's a different thing. i think you should wear something nice and something you can grind in however you shouldn't wear a dress.Grinding dance party help!?
Um...grinding is not dancing, its foreplay. I hope you don't go.....you're better than that.
Don't go. While it may seem like the socially acceptable thing, grinding is a degrading form of dance. You needn't subject yourself to such primal behavior. Grinding is simulated sex and indeed totally sexual in nature. Being sexual with someone you do not know, let alone aren't intimate with is disgusting and degrading. These guys don't get it. If you want to go dancing or to a party, learn salsa or ballet. You'll meet real young men and women. And don't worry what you're friend may think of you. If he doesn't understand, he doesn't understand. And if it creates a wedge, he isn't worth your time to begin with.



Edit: @Sam I mean not to be condescending, but learn something. Do some researching. Grinding is entirely sexual.
1. Get out there and dance! If you're not dancing, no one's going to dance with you. Try to have fun with your friends. Make a friend there who is a girl, or bring a friend who is a girl along, if it's a house party, i'm sure they won't mind. If you're just having fun dancing, a guy will eventually come up behind you and ask to dance.

2. If he walks away, let him. There's really no formality of ending a grinding dance, just keep dancing!

3. Wear some jeans, maybe with some flats if you aren't comfortable with heels. Don't bring a big purse, and wear a decorative tank or shirt(:



And for the people saying it's sexual, ignore it. It's not. You're having fun and you aren't doing anything wrong.
Grinding is innapropriate, rude, ugly, and discusting. DON'T DO IT!