After it's over...ppl tell me that ';whatever'; guy is in the past was ';in love'; with me

After one guy's funeral, somebody told me Terry was ';in love'; with me. He didn't live his life to show me this, but he bragged to his friends.



Even today, Manny, my ex-boyfriend from 1995 - 1997---was the topic of discussion. His mama tells me he asks about me every time they talk---for the last 10 years. She said he was ';in love'; with me, but reminds him HE LEFT---not me! He screwed up...not me! And I loved him for like 7 years after we broke up. It took me a long time to heel.





I even think Brodie, my crush, is ';in love'; with me now. I still can't get the relationship off the ground.



All these guys knew how I feel/felt. Why can't I have a rewarding , successful relationship with a man I love and know he loves me back?



I never married because I never broke through this barrier. Can you help me understand my situation?After it's over...ppl tell me that ';whatever'; guy is in the past was ';in love'; with me
If you talk to the guys as verbosely as you ask questions on here, that could be a part of the problem.



Plus you think about things too much.



Just keep quiet and look pretty, things will work out better for you that way.



PS, in almost every question I've seen you ask, Brodie sounds gay.After it's over...ppl tell me that ';whatever'; guy is in the past was ';in love'; with me
You're obviously a very nice person. You could be caught in the trap of only pursuing those that are unavailable or standoffish. Give the ones that are nice to you and who pursue you a true chance. That could be the key to true happiness for you.
Usually you can know the intention of a guy very easily. If he is verymuch intrested in having sex with you , touching you especialy your booms,nipple %26amp; lips then he is not worth for a true relationship.



You can also know the guy by the way he kissed. If he is gentle and affectionate then he will kiss gently and he will only kiss. If he is more intrested in having you than having a relationship with you then his kiss will be a bit hard and at the same time he will be touching your parts while kissing.



Like wise you can differentiate the guys intention by the way he lookes, he speaks etc....



Always get to know the guy fully before giving your self to him.

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