Is it right for my girl to think its ok to......?

me and my girl have been together for about a year. and we recently had a big blowout and i told her i needed some time to think it over if i wanna stay with her now.. she says she loves me and wants to only be with me and doesnt want anything to do with any other guy.....but then thinks its ok and means nothing if she goes out clubbing every week and bumps and grinds with guys all night long expecting me to be ok with it. i know how she dances with the guys she dont know in the club becuz i went with her a few times a year b4 we started dating when she was with her ex. constant feeling each other up and what not. other then leave her if i dont like it...what can i do to get the point across to her that thats not right?Is it right for my girl to think its ok to......?
I would hate it. Would she like a taste of her own medicine?? bump and grind with a hot girl and watch her come over. This is childish, but would get a reaction. I think this sounds like she wants to be the centre of male attention but to also have the stability of a boyfriend. It must hurt like hell!! Been in this situation with a guy in my teens. I didnt see him again. Tell her how you feel. It is not safe to do this, she may get sexually assaulted or you could end up getting punched from a randy male who thinks hes up for it with her and youre in the way. Be carefulIs it right for my girl to think its ok to......?
She has her way, you have yours...she is putting herself in sexually compromising positions because she wants to. Sounds like a problem to me. SOunds like she has excess baggage and will for a long time.
You have to decide now if you want to be with her or not, why should she hang around waiting for you to decide, who do you think you are, you wanted time to decide, well maybe she already decided for you.
some people are not mature enough to admit that what they do is what is hurting the relationship she's already made up her mind that nothing is her fault or her problem...someone who is ready for a relationship would give up the things that bother you if they are valid, such as flirting and acting like a whore. She doesn't seems ready to admit this or give this ';dancing'; up..maybe you should move on to someone who is ready to respect you and the love you have to offer...
Compatibility is one of the essentials of a good relationship. Her dancing is obviously something she enjoys very much. What you are suggesting is that she give up a love of hers to be with you. That's a tall order. What are you willing to sacrifice?

Do you get my drift?

It is not uncommon for you to dislike this part of her. It would make me uncomfortable also. So your discourse should be to let her know how that difference between you is a mountain you feel is too big to overcome. Even if she agrees to stop, she will not be happy and the problem still would not be solved.

From that point, together, the two of you should be able to determine whats best and pursue that route.
no she aint gonna stop partyin thats wat she liek to do.so she aint gonna stop cuz u want her too.So just move on and forget bout her.