What are the rules of grinding?

i've grinded on women at parties before and i like it. please no ';it's immoral and disgusting and not real dancing'; comments. i know some women like it too, or else they wouldn't do it. i think it's a sexy way to express your sexuality.



the problem is, every time i've done it either she initiated it or i was too drunk to remember how i started it. i feel too awkward just going up to someone on the dance floor and humping her. she might think that it's creepy or only dance with me to avoid hurting my feelings.



when is it ok to start grinding on a girl? how do you know when she wants it? how long should you grind for? normally in dating the guy initiates, but can a guy initiate grinding, or does it have to be the girl? and what about boners? you're supposed to get one, right?



basically what are the unwritten rules? you don't have to answer every question i asked, just the one you feel like answering. thanks!What are the rules of grinding?
I'm a girl, and it's creepy to be suddenly humped by a random guy. However, I like being danced with and grinding with a guy, either from behind or face to face. You're right that it's sexy. However, if you don't really know the girl, don't start feeling her up. If you're behind her, put your hands on her hips, not her boobs. That's just rude. You don't have to initiate the grinding. If you've seen her before on the floor, take a chance! But, don't sneak up behind her. It's fine to get a *****- I guess that's just what happens.

For a girl, it's fun to be twirled from back to front by the guy. Also, always stay on beat, and still lead the ';dance.'; It's ok to start grinding her if it looks like she wants it. If she's having a good time dancing - or if she looks uncomfortable around you or other men, leave her alone.

Remember that grinding is about mutuality. If one of you becomes uncomfortable, just drift apart. However, unless you know eachother - don't grind for more than 2 songs straight.

just some unwritten rules!What are the rules of grinding?
It is ok to start grinding when she is in the mood. Make sure she is up and dancing. You'll know when she wants it when she starts dancing really close to you. Just feel confident and just go for it, GOOD LUCK
Here's the video on all you need to know.



http://www.expertvillage.com/video/43106鈥?/a>
Just make eye contact first, dont just come up behind her because ive had that happen to me and it made me jump. then you can start grinding, and i have had some guys ask me after we had already started dancing...
keep your hands at her waist like not on her butt

well this is if you're in behind her

well even if she is facing you, keep your hands at her waist and like move them when her body moves
Do what Nike's slogan tells you to do



we were all sluts as Freshmen in highschool (i call boys and girls sluts) so all we would do was grind at dances. it was kinda gross.
I would say just go for it. If she isnt intrested she will walk away. Easy as that.
no boners!