How to dance to fast songs with a guy (not grinding)?

Yeah well i'm going to this dance at my school, and I want to dance with guys and stuff, but i'm not sure HOW i would dance with them without like grinding or anything.. I really really hate grinding. It reminds me of an animalistic mating ritual and is basically just a girl letting a guy hump her butt repeatedly until he gets bored (also pretty sexist too, i mean you never see a GIRL all up in a guys ***) but the point is, i want to actually DANCE with a guy so how do you do it? Obviously you are in front of each other, but do you look them directly in the eyes? Where do you put your arms? Surly you don't leave them wobbling around at your sides, but wouldn't it be too direct to put them around the guy????



yeah so i am obviously clueless and really need some help here.

thankss =]How to dance to fast songs with a guy (not grinding)?
Just move to the music. Keep the distance you are comfortable with and if they move behind you turn and face them. Be silly. I'd keep eye contact. Have fun. Some say dancing is a mating ritual but it doesn't have to be. It can just be a dance of joy.