Sunday, November 21, 2010

Questions for anybody whose ever kicked a guy in the balls or been kicked (i'm buging out about it)?

i pulled a stupid stunt on friday. i grabbed this girls chest when we got off the bus. it was mostly a dare. i ran before she could do anything, and at the time it was all pretty funny. anyway, my sister (who thinks i desrve it) found out that next chance she has, she's kicking me in the balls. not only have i never been kicked in the bals by a girl before, i've enver even been hit there. like, not even fallen on my bike or jumping a fence or anything. i'm really nerve wracked on it - if she realy does it, it'll be the first time i ever been hit in the balls. in one way, i can't immagine anything being as bad as they say it is. so i'm kind of not scared- but real scared that it is that bad. heres my questions:



1. do guys really always go to the ground? why? can it be helped? is it better to go down or to try to fight it? for how long?



2. do guys really walk funny after? why? for how long?



3. i guese what i'm really looking to know is, can you fake it not hurting so she doesn't get any satisfaction from it?



4. if i do go down, what does the girl do while the guy is down there? i mean, if the guy is down there for five minuites, thats a long time just hanging around with a guy on the ground. do girls usually just walk away and leave you there? what if its someplace like the bus stop where they can't?



4. does it make you think different about things? like, after you get kicked by a girl for the first time, do you see girls diferent? the thought of my balls getting booted by a girl andme looking like a clown on tv is messing with my mind now - you think it actually happening will mess with my mind? how so?



thanks for any help. i really can't sleep with it on my mindQuestions for anybody whose ever kicked a guy in the balls or been kicked (i'm buging out about it)?
Lol what a question.



1. I've never gone to the ground.

2. Yes they walk funnily if they walk for maybe 5-10 sec

3. You really can't fake it

4. I think she would be satified already if you go down



Is this btw a joke?Questions for anybody whose ever kicked a guy in the balls or been kicked (i'm buging out about it)?
LMAO!
DUDE YOU CAN'T FAKE IT BECAUSE THE PAIN IF REAL....JUST TAKE IT LIKE A MAN
Lol this question is hilarious. I'll answer the male aspect of it. Yes it is extremely painful, nut just in the area but a little deeper towards your stomach. Makes you want to throw up its so bad. Usually you can fake that it didnt hurt because its more of a deep ache and not instantaneous pain. usually takes a few seconds to really set in but curled up in a ball on the ground is by far the most comfortable place to be. That also links to why guys walk funny afterwards, its not something that goes away quickly.



May not be the smartest idea to pretend it didnt hurt, she might think shes missed and go for another kick. Simple because she sure as hell knows almost no guy would be standing after a decent hit and absolutely zero wouldnt be in pain.
ahahaha I'm sorry this is kind of funny!!



anyway, I once (girl here) kicked a guy in balls really hard, but it was a total accident. I thought I didn't even touch him, and he went down. WAY down. and stayed there for a few minutes. I was apologizing like crazy, so I stood around, I guess. he couldn't move much either and had to sit down a few more minutes. all the other guys in the area flocked to him and started making empathetic and sympathetic noises. then some even turned on me, cause I couldn't stop laughing (guys CARING about other guys??). I felt really bad though.



anyway, I guess it depends how hard she kicks you and how sensetive you are. You probably will go down and not be able to move if she's 100% pissed. depending on what kind of girl she is, she might even kick you while you are down, or just leave. if anything your boyfriends might save you. maybe.



well good luck and hope that helped.
oh man, its pretty rough, it starts outin the ball area hurting like hell, then travels to the stomach, its weird , the bet thing to do is jus turn and walk and find a place to sit down, bc it just stops everyhting, its not the worst pain in the world , but its up there, most of the times one ur hit there once, the person who hit u will stop bc they realize how painful it is, its just something guys will never be able to fully explain to girls, its only a guy thing, Good luck man!
Start wearing a cup and you won't have to worry about it:P



Anyway, whether or not you go down depends upon how hard you are kicked. If it's hard enough, you will go down. A direct kick will be hard enough. You do walk funny, as you do whenever you are in pain. You are trying to keep pressure off the area. How long depends upon how hard. It is painful enough that can't pretend it doesn't hurt.



You'll be down for 30 seconds at most. She could start kicking you while you are down, though. What she will do during that time, I can't tell you. I've never been kicked because I was a jackass like you are, I got hit accidentally.
the pain will go away for a while after being kick.
Go to a karate web page. they know how to tighten the leg muscles near the groin which can act as a barrier.



wear an athletic cup for awhile



yes the pain is insane. your boys will not be the ones screaming either. instead the pain goes upwards into your gut.



defend yourself, hold her still and give her a kiss. tell her this:



';there is a shortage of perfect breasts in the world and I wanted to know the feeling of true perfection';



1/2 that line was stolen from ';The Princess Bride';
I can attest to the fact that the pain associated with a

blow to the testicles,from any source,can be crippling,and

agonizing.However,I have always recovered within about

half an hour.

Questions for anybody whose ever kicked a guy in the balls or been kicked (i'm buging out about it)?

i pulled a stupid stunt on friday. i grabbed this girls chest when we got off the bus. it was mostly a dare. i ran before she could do anything, and at the time it was all pretty funny. anyway, my sister (who thinks i desrve it) found out that next chance she has, she's kicking me in the balls. not only have i never been kicked in the bals by a girl before, i've enver even been hit there. like, not even fallen on my bike or jumping a fence or anything. i'm really nerve wracked on it - if she realy does it, it'll be the first time i ever been hit in the balls. in one way, i can't immagine anything being as bad as they say it is. so i'm kind of not scared- but real scared that it is that bad. heres my questions:



1. do guys really always go to the ground? why? can it be helped? is it better to go down or to try to fight it? for how long?



2. do guys really walk funny after? why? for how long?



3. i guese what i'm really looking to know is, can you fake it not hurting so she doesn't get any satisfaction from it?



4. if i do go down, what does the girl do while the guy is down there? i mean, if the guy is down there for five minuites, thats a long time just hanging around with a guy on the ground. do girls usually just walk away and leave you there? what if its someplace like the bus stop where they can't?



4. does it make you think different about things? like, after you get kicked by a girl for the first time, do you see girls diferent? the thought of my balls getting booted by a girl andme looking like a clown on tv is messing with my mind now - you think it actually happening will mess with my mind? how so?



thanks for any help. i really can't sleep with it on my mindQuestions for anybody whose ever kicked a guy in the balls or been kicked (i'm buging out about it)?
Oh **** dude you better run!!! my boyfriend was kickin it with his friends and you know how guys play around while anyways he got kicked there and he didn't get off the floor for like 10 min!!!! i got mad and kicked the guy who kicked him and he really never got up lol. But yes it hurts and i dont think you can fake that hurt you got to really feel it to know true pain. I felt really bad for him and wondered if that would effect or kids in the future. i think you go to the ground cause your legs buckle from pain and you will walk funny for awhile. It depends on how hard the kick is to determine that. That really sucks for you. But that's what you kinda get for touching a girls boobs. I would have got you that same day.Questions for anybody whose ever kicked a guy in the balls or been kicked (i'm buging out about it)?
Are you really this concerned about you getting kicked in the balls... I think you need to find a hobby.
Dude you deserve it and I hope it hurts like hell, you will think twice about sexually assaulting a female. HAHAHA!
indirectlly kicked you can cope with it and play it off. kicked hard and direct you could fall down in pain and some cases ';bust a nut'; and have to go to the hospital and possibly lose 50% or more of your baby making ability. try not to get kick in the balls unless u dont want kids.
Hopefully it wont happen but if it does it will be ok. I know it hurts and sometimes kinda feels like your little fellas crawled up inside you and wont ever come back out. But within a few minutes you'd be ok . You wont walk funny. No one will know she did it except the stupid girl who does it. She sounds like a real pain in the ***. Good luck. Just try to stay out of her way and hopefully she'll forget about it.
To kick a man in the genitals is wrong. Yes, what you did is wrong too, but it's not going to ruin her life. Serious problems can happen if you're kicked too hard.



I hope it doesn't happen, and I hope just the fear and worry is enough to teach you to treat girls with respect.



Good luck.
Answers from someone who knows (unfortunately!):



1. yes, you hit the ground - hard! it cannot be helped, it's an involuntary reaction, trust me.



2. yes, you WILL walk funny (bent-over) for a while, depending on how hard you get kicked.



3. you can NOT fake hurting, unless your's are too tiny to find! imagine driving a needle through your ear drum - and then multiply by 10 = kicked hard in the sack.



4. usually the girl will nail you, watch you drop, and walk away leaving you writhing in pain. if they can't leave you, they'll ignore you.



5. DUH!! Learn from your mistakes, dumba$$, and stop giving anyone any reasons to kick you in the first place - you probably deserve it and have it coming from her. Respect goes a long way with women, trust me.
Man, it seems that you've resigned yourself that you're getting kicked in the balls. Go on the defensive, protect yourself! Avoid your sister until she forgets! You don't want to get kicked, and if you know it's coming, just try to block/avoid. It does suck, and the pain travels up into the pit of your stomach (I've been kicked and punched down there- during fight training). Good luck!

Questions for anybody whose ever kicked a guy in the balls or been kicked (i'm buging out about it)?

i pulled a stupid. i grabbed this girls chest when we got off the bus. it was mostly a dare. i ran before she could do anything, and at the time it was all pretty funny. anyway, my sister (who thinks i desrve it) found out that if the girl gets the chance, she's kicking me in the balls. not only have i never been kicked in the bals by a girl before, i've enver even been hit there. like, not even fallen on my bike or jumping a fence or anything. i'm really nerve wracked on it - if she realy does it, it'll be the first time i ever been hit in the balls. in one way, i can't immagine anything being as bad as they say it is. so i'm kind of not scared- but real scared that it is that bad. heres my questions:



1. do guys really always go to the ground? why? can it be helped? is it better to go down or to try to fight it? for how long?



2. do guys really walk funny after? why? for how long?



3. i guese what i'm really looking to know is, can you fake it not hurting so she doesn't get any satisfaction from it?



4. if i do go down, what does the girl do while the guy is down there? i mean, if the guy is down there for five minuites, thats a long time just hanging around with a guy on the ground. do girls usually just walk away and leave you there? what if its someplace like the bus stop where they can't?



4. does it make you think different about things? like, after you get kicked by a girl for the first time, do you see girls diferent? the thought of my balls getting booted by a girl andme looking like a clown on tv is messing with my mind now - you think it actually happening will mess with my mind? how so?



thanks for any help.Questions for anybody whose ever kicked a guy in the balls or been kicked (i'm buging out about it)?
I don't know about all of your answers but I think you deserve it, if that was a dare or not you had no right to do that so you deserve that plus more. I would have kicked you in the balls before you even made a comment about it. good luck have fun crying like a baby.Questions for anybody whose ever kicked a guy in the balls or been kicked (i'm buging out about it)?
how old are you dude? but besides that, dont worry about it. most of the time they hit the wrong spot where it hurts the most.
One easy way to find out is to let me kick you in the nuts. I'll do it.
You'll never fake the no pain thing because the pain is what makes you drop to the ground. Keep 'em covered dude or you're in for one really unforgettable first time. Despite the fact that what you did to her was very very wrong, nothing except self defense warrants anyone kicking someone in the wobbly bits....nothing.
bro......yes, if she hits you hard enough, you'll go down





it'll feel like she just grabbed them and shoved them up your stomach and to your throat.....I can be bad to the point that you feel you'll throw up.....I never have, but ive seen it happen.....



its nothing long term....it'll last about 2-3 minutes....similar to the feeling of getting the wind knocked out of you but a little worse and lasts a little longer..





She cant damage them, if your worried...the way the ';sack'; is made prevents them from being affected....









Hope it all goes well bro...........your in for a ';good-time'; if it happens %26lt;------------sarcasm
wot a waste of space you are your parents should have born a human instead of a ,,,,,,,,PRAT
Your oyster's will be in your throat. You will most likely vomit. She will laugh and they will most likely be sore for about 2 days and NO, you can't kick her in the crotch. Keep your hands to yourself.



PS: Invest in a cup.

What are the rules of grinding?

i've grinded on women at parties before and i like it. please no ';it's immoral and disgusting and not real dancing'; comments. i know some women like it too, or else they wouldn't do it. i think it's a sexy way to express your sexuality.



the problem is, every time i've done it either she initiated it or i was too drunk to remember how i started it. i feel too awkward just going up to someone on the dance floor and humping her. she might think that it's creepy or only dance with me to avoid hurting my feelings.



when is it ok to start grinding on a girl? how do you know when she wants it? how long should you grind for? normally in dating the guy initiates, but can a guy initiate grinding, or does it have to be the girl? and what about boners? you're supposed to get one, right?



basically what are the unwritten rules? you don't have to answer every question i asked, just the one you feel like answering. thanks!What are the rules of grinding?
I'm a girl, and it's creepy to be suddenly humped by a random guy. However, I like being danced with and grinding with a guy, either from behind or face to face. You're right that it's sexy. However, if you don't really know the girl, don't start feeling her up. If you're behind her, put your hands on her hips, not her boobs. That's just rude. You don't have to initiate the grinding. If you've seen her before on the floor, take a chance! But, don't sneak up behind her. It's fine to get a *****- I guess that's just what happens.

For a girl, it's fun to be twirled from back to front by the guy. Also, always stay on beat, and still lead the ';dance.'; It's ok to start grinding her if it looks like she wants it. If she's having a good time dancing - or if she looks uncomfortable around you or other men, leave her alone.

Remember that grinding is about mutuality. If one of you becomes uncomfortable, just drift apart. However, unless you know eachother - don't grind for more than 2 songs straight.

just some unwritten rules!What are the rules of grinding?
It is ok to start grinding when she is in the mood. Make sure she is up and dancing. You'll know when she wants it when she starts dancing really close to you. Just feel confident and just go for it, GOOD LUCK
Here's the video on all you need to know.



http://www.expertvillage.com/video/43106鈥?/a>
Just make eye contact first, dont just come up behind her because ive had that happen to me and it made me jump. then you can start grinding, and i have had some guys ask me after we had already started dancing...
keep your hands at her waist like not on her butt

well this is if you're in behind her

well even if she is facing you, keep your hands at her waist and like move them when her body moves
Do what Nike's slogan tells you to do



we were all sluts as Freshmen in highschool (i call boys and girls sluts) so all we would do was grind at dances. it was kinda gross.
I would say just go for it. If she isnt intrested she will walk away. Easy as that.
no boners!

I just went into high school and all these guys think I'm hot but I don't like the way they treat me...?

My middle school got split up three ways. And a small part went to the high school I went to. But most of my friends luckily went to that high school. Anyways, in middle school not that many guys thought I was hot some did but they weren't all over me. But last week was my first week in high school and now all these guys are constantly checking me out. And I'm getting all these friend requests on facebook from these guys. And our school dance was on thursday. People don't actually dance at school dances, they just grind the whole time. I'm not too big for grinding... in face that dance was the first time I've ever grinded. But anyways all of these guys were grinding with me. Half of them didn't even ask to dance, they just came up behind me and started dancing. At this one point there was a line of guys waiting to dance with me. I just got away pretty fast. Because it makes me really uncomfortable. That whole line thing made me just feel like some kind of item these guys were lining up to use. When guys just come up to me and start dancing I don't really know how I can say no sinse they didn't even ask. And this one guy started feeling me up and I got really uncomfortable, but I just gave this look to my friend close by asking her to help and she came over and got me outa it. But anyways, I hate all of these guys treating me like this it makes me uncomfortable. I mean like I like knowing I'm attractive, but the way the treat me makes me so uncomfortable. Is it weird that I'm uncomfortable about this? %26amp;why do all of a sudden all these guys think I'm hot? And what can I do to make them stop treating me this way?



(Oh and it really sucks because I met this one guy and he's sooo cute, nice and polite, but he has a gf)I just went into high school and all these guys think I'm hot but I don't like the way they treat me...?
Boys aren't as gross later in high school, but as for now that's typical. Stay away from the school dances until you are in 11th or 12th grade. In my school, the kids who went to those dances in 9th and 10th grade were all really gross and had similar experiences to yours. It gets better, just stay away from the people you saw at the dance.

If a girl grinds with her date at prom does that mean she is easy?

i have a feeling the guy that i like is going to ask me to prom sometime this week,if he doesnt oh well but i just want to be ready just in case. But lets say if he asks me to prom...and all the girls that dances with their guys always grinds on them.....i mean i know how to%26amp; i know how to dance too,but i am afraid the guy might think i am easy? would it be good if i just grind on him %26amp; if he thinks that he will get laid after prom like most guys do %26amp; i say no ....will he appricate me ??? or should i dance a different way %26amp; not grind,then i am afriad he might not like me? :[ if this happens lol somebody help me %26amp; give me advice please !If a girl grinds with her date at prom does that mean she is easy?
it doesnt mean you're easy. Grinding is a way of dancing. You can dance with him anyway you want. Yes, even though that grinding DOES allude to sex, he wont think OH IM SO GUNNA GET LAID TONIGHT.



dance however you want. you'll be fine! Have fun!If a girl grinds with her date at prom does that mean she is easy?
no

Grinding at middle school dance?

So, Im in 7th grade and im 13. we are having school dance on friday. Our 7,8th grades are in a different school than 6th graders, its like 200 meters away btw haha so its close.my point to that is we had a different type of dances in 6th grade, the lights are on, and it SUCKED we couldnt put our hands on the guys necks and theirs on our waist, we would be in soooo much trouble. So, in our 7/8th grade school, our dances are together. So, my grade is starting to grind now. My point to all this is, is it slutty to grind? (i have before, like 5 times) and yeah. and tips to grinding!



also, what do i do if i get partyboyed by 8th graders?! (meaning i get grinded by both sides) and how do i slow dance!? ughh! im so not ready for all this. how do i dance in general? most kids in my grade just jump up and down so i sweat... a lot. (i play many sports so the doctor said my body is used to sweating for all the sporty/ excersizing events ... i know;; it sucks!!) so how do i prevent sweating a lot?!

And how do i get a guy to grind with me?



(by the way;; im in the popular group. but im not a snob,and not mean so dont think otherwise so yeah)



please try to answer all questions! thank you so much!



and also dont say im too young. i honestly dont care. like seriously!?Grinding at middle school dance?
okay. for your grade, I think you can get away with grinding without being called a slut. I am a frosh in high school and I just started. And it is just a dance, not a huge deal.

Tips on grinding-

~ bend your knees a little

~ bend over a little so u can get more a.ss in there hahaha (sorry that sound weird...)

~ when the guy puts his hands on your hips, if you want place your on top of his gently

~ follow the beat of the song and incorporate the beat with your hip movement

~ have confidence!:)

~ try not to swish your hair around a lot because it could get in there face and i guess that aggravates them and i could get there mouth if they are talking or just breathing

~ try to go with a group if you are feeling nervous (P.S, make sure u are with a friend who wants to/ is going to be grinding so you won't be alone

~ just have fun and relax

~ if you want to get into it,take on hand off of the guys hip and put it up in the air and kind of move it around a bit, this shows you are having fun



What to do if you are ';partyboyed';-

~just allow it to happen hahaha, its like double the fun if u like to grind. To give them both what they want, put one hand on the guy behind you's hand (that are on your hips), and the other hand on the guy in front of you's shoulder. Keep moving your hips like you normally would when just grinding with somebody behind you. If you are not comfortable with being ';partyboyed';, just simply back away from both so feeling will not get hurt.



How to get a guy to grind with you-

~ well all guys are different but usually try to...

~ act like you are having fun

~ where tight clothing to show off out womanly features

~ make sexy eye contact with a guy that you want to grind with, but make sure it is casual and ';not intended';;)



Hope I helped!Grinding at middle school dance?
Hi, im in 7th grade to and grinding is not slutty its just really fun. Just bend your knees a little and move your hips in a circle motion to the beat of the song. I have been partyboyed a few times and its kind of fun just go with it. Slow dancing is really easy just put your hands around the guys neck and rock back and forth slowly. To get guys to grind you make sure that you are close to a group of guys so they notice you and laugh and look like you are having a lot of fun with your friends. Don't worry about sweating because everyone is but wear perfume so you smell good and always wear shorts because it gets really hot after a while. Sorry my answer is kind of long i hope i could help:)
You're way too young to be thinking of grinding on a guy. If it happens once, most likely it will happen again and POOF! You're a Britney Spears image. Just have some fun sloww dancing. You don't want to get in trouble. And besides, when your classmates are successful people they will be like ';Hey, remeber that slut in Grade 7. What a joke! She's like homeless now and no one wants to be invovled with her cuz she slept with every guy in high school!'; Make something useful out of your life.
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    okay, so my friend invited me to go to his friend's party with him. It's going to be fun except i'm worried about a few things. One that i only know 2 people going and they're both guys and will probably be dancing with other girls two its a grinding dance party and i've never grinded before and i'm afraid that guys won't want to dance with me and i'll be akwardly sitting in the corner. so here are my questions

    1. how do you get a guy to grind with you?

    2. what do you do after you're done grinding with a guy?

    3. what do you wear to those parties (it's just a big house party)Grinding dance party help!?
    first of all when you get there you should see how other people are dancing and you should copy them however don't copy there exact moves as you don't want to look foolish. to get a guy to dance with you, you should dance with your friends and dance near 2 a group of guys and one of them will defiantly dance with you.after your done grinding with a guy u should just say you need a drink then go of and dance with your friends of if the guys wants too you could lips him but that's a different thing. i think you should wear something nice and something you can grind in however you shouldn't wear a dress.Grinding dance party help!?
    Um...grinding is not dancing, its foreplay. I hope you don't go.....you're better than that.
    Don't go. While it may seem like the socially acceptable thing, grinding is a degrading form of dance. You needn't subject yourself to such primal behavior. Grinding is simulated sex and indeed totally sexual in nature. Being sexual with someone you do not know, let alone aren't intimate with is disgusting and degrading. These guys don't get it. If you want to go dancing or to a party, learn salsa or ballet. You'll meet real young men and women. And don't worry what you're friend may think of you. If he doesn't understand, he doesn't understand. And if it creates a wedge, he isn't worth your time to begin with.



    Edit: @Sam I mean not to be condescending, but learn something. Do some researching. Grinding is entirely sexual.
    1. Get out there and dance! If you're not dancing, no one's going to dance with you. Try to have fun with your friends. Make a friend there who is a girl, or bring a friend who is a girl along, if it's a house party, i'm sure they won't mind. If you're just having fun dancing, a guy will eventually come up behind you and ask to dance.

    2. If he walks away, let him. There's really no formality of ending a grinding dance, just keep dancing!

    3. Wear some jeans, maybe with some flats if you aren't comfortable with heels. Don't bring a big purse, and wear a decorative tank or shirt(:



    And for the people saying it's sexual, ignore it. It's not. You're having fun and you aren't doing anything wrong.
    Grinding is innapropriate, rude, ugly, and discusting. DON'T DO IT!

    Sharing office space- how to make it more comfortable?

    So I share my office space in my construction management trailer with an older guy (mid 50's) He seems to put up a front pretty much everyday, which sucks because I need to learn on the job. How do I get to neutral ground with this guy?? It's starting to really piss me off that he's so cold towards me...Sharing office space- how to make it more comfortable?
    Give him the impression that you think he's great. People like to sound smart, they like to think others think they're smart. So, start asking him stuff.... ';how would YOU do this?'; ';how did YOU do that?'; ';What do YOU think of this?'; and just sound real interested in whatever he says back, make sure you agree with what he says (even if you really don't.) Then he'll start liking you more because not only do you care about his opinion, but you'll start working the way he works, and that's the way he likes things done. Then, after a bit of that, you can start trying to put your opinion in a bit. But make sure he really likes you first, or he could get all moody again.Sharing office space- how to make it more comfortable?
    You need to prove yourself-I worked with a group of really knowledgeable, talented architects in a design/build team. I had to prove my value to gain acceptance.

    A few questions about grinding (dancing)?

    I know how to grind, however I do not know how to start the whole grinding process.



    Girls, what is it that the guy does that makes you want to grind him?? Is there something specific that he does (to make you want to grind him)? What do other guys do that make you want to not grind them? How important are the guy's looks?? Would you allow a really good looking guy to grind you regardless of what he does (even if it is the most inappropriate thing)?



    I am just a guy who is trying to improve my success with women (on the dance floor). Please provide me with honest responses. Also, I am open to any other recommendations about grinding. Thank you!A few questions about grinding (dancing)?
    If you are waiting for her to say - ';now grind me please'; - you will be waiting for a long time.



    I would say - just dance for a while, look her in the eye - chat. See how she responds.



    You can start by maneuvering a little closer - and touching the inside of her knee with the inside of your opposite knee. If she doesn't back away - she's probably into it.



    Keep moving closer, slowly - putting your knee between her legs as you get closer and closer - trying to see if she responds or not. If she moves away - that's OK - if she lets you get closer - that's even better.



    Touch her arm. Perhaps put a hand behind her back. If she digs it - she might do the same. If she seems to like it - pull her even closer. Eventually, the two of you will be grinding.



    Enjoy.A few questions about grinding (dancing)?
    What makes me want to grind on a guy is several things:



    1-How he looks, beacuse if he's ugly, I won't even dance with him.

    2-If I can't see his face, he better be dressed to kill, or have a awesome body.

    3-Grinding is just a form of dancing to be honest, certain dances require different movement if you ask me.

    4-I start grinding on a guy when he starts holding my hips

    5-If a guy does anything inappropriate I leave, I have morals and don't tolerate anyone touching me like an animal.
    Go and grind the **** away. If they don't like it then they're a bunch of soppy silly and superficial girls anyway. Don't make a fool of yourself though. Just do what comes naturally. Have fun. Try not to care too much. It's not healthy to care so very much about something like this. You're what's important in this case.
    Cute question... Hello young 'un.



    Simple answer: A guy who can dance well is without doubt, very sexy. If he CAN dance well, it's on. You also MUST smell clean and look good.



    Back when I was 20 (lol--I'm 30 now), I would allow a guy that I was attracted to...to do anything within reason. Grind yes, but within reason.



    She'll let you know if you've overstepped your boundaries (with her body or with words). Do what feels natural. Nine out of ten times, she will lead you by touching your chest, or allow you to place your hands on her hips, etc., etc.
    all u do is dance its not a matter of how good u r its a matter of if u r having fun
    my opinion: grinding should only be done my married couples. i think it is the grossest thing ever... just my opinion
    Some guys I danced with grind and some didn't. I just went along with it. Either way was fine for me.



    I wouldn't want to have it look inappropriate. There is a way of doing it without looking like you want to do her on the dance floor.



    When you are dancing start a slow grind. If she moves with your body then take it a step farther but not to much. Or you might scare her away.



    If when you grind she backs away then stop, finish the dance and move on to the next lady you wish to dance with.



    But be respectful of what she wants or doesn't want. Don't be a jerk about it.
    dawg just chill. you cant learn from the internet. you just gotta keep doing it and get experience. there isnt one way to do it. You could ask the girl, you do just make eye contact and she will know(depending on your crowd). Dont be afraid to be let down either. Just be confident and just go start it, if she gets angry, then **** her. no matter what be confident, sometimes you'll get rejected but if you have confidence you will have an overall good experiance
    I think that's disgusting! If a man tried to ';grind'; me, I'd push him away and possibly kick him in the balls!
    makes me want to? - if the song is awesome and if he catches my eye

    the guy would have to be okay or better --

    would you allow a really good looking guy to grind you...? - absolutely XP

    Grinding and a ***** problem!?

    so, im a girl 13 7th grade, im popular and pretty(not bragging, like i hate when people do im really not trying to; like im friends with all the popular kidds so that makes me and im not snobby, and for the pretty part, i guess i think iam its jjust what people tell me and a lot of guys like me only cause of that which i hate,) ANYWAYS, theres a school dance on friday, we arent allowed to grind but grindlines get too big to break up for the teachers and everyone does it anyway. i have grinded before.



    my questions are); how do i get a guy to grind with me? (im very social but i get very very very very very shy at times. like insanly) so, how do i get a guy to grind wiht me?

    question 2) what do i do if the guy gets a ***** while grinding (it happened once to me before but idk what todo)

    question 3) how do i get a guy to slow dance with me? and how do i slow dance?



    please no answers like your too young cause i really dont care! haha yur not my parent!Grinding and a ***** problem!?
    first of all you are a little girl and you don't need to be grinding on anybody in te first place. and your conceited little behind need to realize that. your *** probably ugly on the frist place.Grinding and a ***** problem!?
    Why don't you show your question to your parents? They should be quite happy to give you the answer you need.
    Grinding?
    wow, lmao, im 13 too and these question are plain stupid no offence, ill answer them anyway

    1. You ask them, flirt with them, same way you 'get' a guy to like you

    2. You do nothing - keep grinding

    3. refer to question 1

    your hands around his neck, his hands on your waist and you just move slowly - not that hard
    Hahha im the same age, pretty much same personality and stuff as you.



    1. Dont be shy, it doesnt help. Maybe you should give them a wall dance thenn they'll probablyy freak ( thatss what where i live calls it) you.



    2. Iff a guy getss a ***** just embrace it. It means he likess what your doing so just do more of it.



    3. Be bold and go up to a guy, dont wait for them to come up to you. Put your arms around theyre shoulders and get close to themm.



    That sounded really weird butt hopedd i helped. Good luck
    :P. I like that last line.



    There's a reason that grinding really shouldn't happen until your older though, because of concern #2. That is a ridiculous turn on for guys, to grind. It indicates sex, it's pressing bodies and rubbing... how can you expect them to not get turned on?lol. Best treatment for now; ignore it, just keep dancing. Think of it as, him being happy to dance with you :P.



    You said that people do long lines; then it's probably ridiculous easy to get in one of those lines...



    BUT. there are formulas to help ;).



    Guys love it when a girls asks. But if you're too shy for that, lots of eye contact with the guys you want to dance with; likewise with the slow dancing. It's all about catching the eye.



    Slow dancing, we just put our arms around each other and went in a circle. You're not gonna get much more difficult than that.lol. Do whatever feels comfortable.
    1) If he is in a group just go and grab him in front of his friends and pull him behind you he will grind you to show his friends he gets ***

    If he is alone pull him behind you and dance

    2) If he gets a *****, just keep dancing it means you are doing a good job

    3A) You go up to a group of GUYS or a GUY and in your prettiest voice say please dance with me or just grab him

    3B) Just sway side to side and do a turn every 45 seconds but dont go out of his hold or he'll leave

    Should i grind or not??

    For the past couple of Dances the Grade 8 and 9ers grind ALOTE!!!!! At first we thought it was a little nasty the next dance a couple guys start to grind and then the next dance ALL guys start to grind.A couple gurls started to grind but they were from dif classes and stuff so we didn't really know them. Me and My friend are thinking of grinding it's just That my BEST friend thinks were all growing up to fast and stuff and she hates swearing and i slow danced with my crush and she got sooooooooooo mad i just can't help but wonder how mad she would be if i was to grind like i would like to try it caus everyone thinks it's fun and stuff i'm just scared she'll never talk to me again or something!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I mean it's her opinion and maybe she should learn to deal with the fact that were growing up and that were moving on and stuff!!! What should i do!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I want to try and I think it might be fun but i don't want my friend to get SUPER mad at me!!!!!!!! Any answers are appreciated!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Thanx guys!!!!!!Should i grind or not??
    firstly thanks for ur response. Secondly people here are getting a lil crazy about grinding ima guy and its really not that bad i mean theres always extremes but in most cases its just having a good time. I think your friend should respect whatever your decision is and its her Own choice for herself if she doesnt want to then she doesnt.. but its not fair to get really mad at u for having a little fun. id say go for it as long as you dont get too crazy which doesnt sound like you are :PShould i grind or not??
    No!!! Be cool and dance with someone and don't grind. It's disgusting, be above everyone and just dance! No one is judging but I don't think chain dry humping is a dance.
    they can't stay mad at you foreever,:)grind with your pals if you really want to.
    grinding is kinda intense.
    USE PUNCTUATION THAT IS NOT !!!!! FOR THE LOVE OF GOD. HOW LONG IS THAT SENTENCE.
    If you plan on grinding I would suggest wearing a mouth piece to sleep.

    Grinding? help.?

    so i'm a girl and i want to know how to grind really well. how do you get a guy to grind with you and get really into it? so you feel sexy and have a lot of fun? how do you start to grind? any tips for grinding while you're doing it? thanks. its so hot.Grinding? help.?
    i am in the same boat exept my cousin and i were at a dance and she was grinding a guy and he started kinda humping her it was soooooo funny but i think he was kinda embaressed... soo all i can say is grinding is not a humping motion it is more of a cricle motion..Grinding? help.?
    How many more times are you gunna ask this question?
    i suggest u watch porn 4 more clarity

    I've never grinded with a girl before and i'm 14 years old, is that sad and how are guys supposed to grind?

    It's not sad, just the thought of it is pathetic. If you want to grind something, go grind a tree or a fire hydrant.I've never grinded with a girl before and i'm 14 years old, is that sad and how are guys supposed to grind?
    Stand and move with her. Looks real freaking weird if the guy is doing all the work. And no, that's not sad.

    Not really into GRINDING?

    I sort of made a pledge to myself not to grind with a guy right away. If some guy asks to dance at the club and i want to (but not grind), what exactly would i say?? should i tell him i dont grind, but we can still dance or just not say nothing and start dancing face to face.



    If i still want contact, can i hold his hand and dancce, or do u just do that when dancing with ur girlfriendss. How are u supposed to dance wit a guy, without grinding anyways ahahha, so confused....Not really into GRINDING?
    In the club scene, grinding is what you are gonna find for the most part, and at a club it will be hard just to avoid it. The holding hands thing is just with your girlfriends.

    I really like this guy but does he feel the same HELP please!?

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    Well, sorry I wrote a whole novel but I really hope someone can help, thanks so much! -faith聽I really like this guy but does he feel the same HELP please!?
    kick him in the balls if his face turn purple than he likes u if it turn green run for the hillsI really like this guy but does he feel the same HELP please!?
    hes a wierd guy lol '; your face just looks very different? wtf
    like your paragraph is like totally like confusing

    like if i were you i would like edit it and den like i would

    like repost it and den i would like re read da question

    and like answer it like like like a.s.a.p.

    lol!!!

    What kind of martial art is good for real life situations?

    I want to learn a martial art, but i have no idea of which to learn. What i am looking for is something that will actually help me in real life situations. Like if someone comes up to me wanting to fight, i deny fighting, but he attacks me anyway. I want to know how to handle it and put that guy on the ground knowing not to **** around no more with me. Dont get me wrong, im not going to try to look for fights. I just want to know how to handle one if i am forced into a fight. and by lookin at diff. questions on here many ppl are saying not many styles will really help in real life situations... help me out guys...!!!! i live in Georgia...so id like to find a school in the area....thanksWhat kind of martial art is good for real life situations?
    Jujitsu-because it is a very flexible art that adapts to any situation , not to mention its very effective in street combat, since most fights in the streets end up on the ground, make sure not to take brazilian jujitsu, its more sport like and not all that effective on the streets.What kind of martial art is good for real life situations?
    jujitsu.



    then



    shotokan Karate.
    Try Kung Fu.
    Judo and Akido are the best for true self-defense. Both teach you how to fight on the ground, which is eventually where evey fight ends up.
    having been in the arts for 45 years, I have found (for me), the best is Judo...
    Tekondo because they teach u what u do in any kind of situation. They even teach u to kick there hand and makes them drop there gun. They even teach u to flip people. Try it !
    tae kwon do is a great martial art for self defense (punching and kicking etc...)and hapkido is a great martial art if you wanna be really in close and do some serious damage (lots of pressure points, chokes nerves etc...) if you have any questions about these martial arts please feel free to email me @ tkdtiger7@gmail.com. i have been a tae kwon do and hapkido instructor for several years and i am a 3rd degree black belt and i will be happy to answer any questions you might have.
    I propose Aikido - a form of self defence martial arts. I learnt it while I was in university. It's not too taxing on the physical part but one does truly needs a lot of time to master it. My sensei was a small man but he throws the guys around like peanuts. The philosophy behind Aikido is also one of peace and non-violence. Essentially, Aikido is not confrontational. Instead of defending head on, the practitioner spins in circular direction to ward off the attacking force and then bring the party to the ground. Well, easier said than done I guess. Aikido trains the mind as well, teaching one to remain focused and anticipate attack directions in those undesirable circumstances.



    Words can't describe. Try it! :)
    my 9 mm...
    The only style that will work is the one that you are interested in, that you will invest the time and energy to learn to use effectively. All martial arts were created to defend people from attacks, but only if you are willing to put forth the effort to learn the techniques to the point where you can use them without having to think about using them. If you have to think and decide what to do, it is already too late, it has to be reflexive and instinctive. Every style will work, and no style will work, it all depends on the individual and the effort they put into it.
    Well you want to start looking for a school that is available, and near your home.



    ANY Martial Art is good, as Bruce Lee said: ';Foreign or not, if helps you look after yourself whenyour in a fight, then you should learn to use it. It doesn't matter at all where it comes from.'; that's a direct quote from himself, he also quoted that in Return of The Dragon in which he wrote, directed and starred in it. and Bruce studied most if not all the fighting disciplines at some point.



    It's bull s**t to say that their not good in real life situations; because they are or else they would not be around for as long as they have, they've been combat tested for hundreds of years.



    What you see in movies are just the flashy parts (and often choreograhed fights) of some of the martial arts; things that will make the movie seem more exciting for the moviegoer. the basics are all you need to use and not something flashy or complex in a fight.



    Anything you learn will help you defend yourself, so it doesn't matter what discipline you learn, nor is any one better than the other.



    You may want to take a discipline that works on your ';standing game'; Tae Kwon Do, Kung Fu, Karate, Krav Maga, and then later on learn a discipline that'll help you in your ';ground game'; Judo, Jiujitsu, Aikido, Hapkido.



    if you study hard enough you'll learn the techniques. just look for a school near you and take a few lessons, if you like it; stick with it, and don't mistake starting out as a white belt, that you'll be better than somebody you come up against on the street, it'll take time.
    Learning how to box is always a good idea. Judo is a great option too since it is cheap and you will get plenty of practice getting tossed. And if you're still in school...join the wrestling team.



    Aikido, etc. is great for personal growth, meditation and overall fitness, but is not that great for self-defense.



    and I'm sorry, but Japanese JJ won't teach you much about good ground fighting. Brazilian JJ is the way to go for that.



    Where in Georgia are you? I know a bunch of great gyms all over the country, so if you narrow down your location I can probably point you towards a good MMA, boxing, jujtisu or muay Thai school.
    MUAY BORAN.



    Muay Boran, which translates to ';Ancient Boxing';, is the predecessor to Muay Thai. The aim of Muay Boran is to help a warrior survive a battle after he has lost his weapons (until this time, he will use a style known as Krabi Krabong); its style is quite efficient, in that it maximizes the amount of damage that every blow can leverage, and effective, in that it can easily lead to the death or serious injury of the opponent. Most notably, Muay Boran emphasizes the usage of extremely powerful elbow and knee techniques, and combinations thereof, always thrown at full force and speed, with the intent to overcome one's adversary as quickly as possible, because another one might already be coming close or attacking. Muay Boran were categorized in to Muay Thasao (North), Muay Korat (Esarn or North-East), Muay Lobburee and Muay Chaiya. There was the phrase state that ';Powerful punch Korat, Wit Lobburee, Good Posture Chaiya, Faster Thasao'; (????????????? ?????????? ????????? ??????????????)



    Various techniques in Muay Boran are forbidden in present-day Muay Thai tournaments and competitions. Even in Thailand it is becoming increasingly difficult to find a school willing to teach it; they prefer to focus on ';modern'; Muay Thai, as this is more easily exploitable as a form of income. Today many schools who claim to offer Muay Boran just teach Muay Thai and sell it under the name of Muay Boran.



    Traditionally, Muay Boran was not well-known in the West outside a small circle of practitioners. The art was featured in the 2003 Thai film Ong Bak starring Tony Jaa. Tony Ja has learned Muay Korat (one of Muay Born).
    Bujinkan.
    most fights go to the ground, so take either judo or jiu jitsu. judo is better for take downs, jiu jitsu is better for submission.



    after learning some grappling. take some muay thai kick boxing.
    Amazing answers.

    FIrst TKD is a sport and will not provide you with real self-defense measures equal to those if you took Kung Fu, Krav Magra, etc. However, one poster quoted Bruce Lee stating any martial art is good. THis poster is correct.

    Second, Aikido is a great art, however, it takes years to become somewhat proficient. I have two arts, Hapkido and Aikido, and can tell you that Aikido is more difficult to learn though equally effective.

    Third, Ju Jitsu. Great...you learn how to fight on the ground, but of the several street fights I have been in not one ended on the ground. I was able to disable the people well before the fights would get to that point -- through controlled locks etc.

    I would suggest first finding an art that fits you and a school that teaches real self-defense (not a mcdojo). If you are strong, big, you can learn karate, or another art that uses a lot of strength. If not, then an art like hapkido with joint locks etc might be better. That said, I am 6'4 220 lbs and chose hapkido because of the ability to chose between fighting straight on strength or using locks, or joint breaks.

    Your school should be one that is reasonably priced (about $100 or so per month), requires you to train about 4x per week at about 1 to 2 hours per training (Ideally should train at least 8 hours per week to become effective). You preform 15 plus minutes of stretches, excercise, etc. The class should allow you to spar once you are ready. THe class should allow you to work with people of differant height, sex, weight. THe class should NOT make you stand in line behind people waiting to try a technique and then back in line to wait again (this is a waste of the training time). You should not have to pay for weapons classes.



    Again, consider Krav Magra, Hapkido, Karate, Kung Fu. Just a few thoughts.
    judo or akido
    judo is a great thing to know as it is a grappling art. Kempo is good for women as it involves a lot of arm and hand movements that can be applied up close. Stay away from the Jean-Claude VanDamme moves they take skill and space to do them.
    Krav Maga is the best for real life situations. If there is no Krav maga school near you then try Karate (Okinawan, not American or Korean).



    Look at this video of Krav Maga

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QXHSEOv78…



    All other arts are for sport or excercise.
    Choi Kwang Do
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  • What kind of martial art is good for real life situations?

    I want to learn a martial art, but i have no idea of which to learn. What i am looking for is something that will actually help me in real life situations. Like if someone comes up to me wanting to fight, i deny fighting, but he attacks me anyway. I want to know how to handle it and put that guy on the ground knowing not to **** around no more with me. Dont get me wrong, im not going to try to look for fights. I just want to know how to handle one if i am forced into a fight. and by lookin at diff. questions on here many ppl are saying not many styles will really help in real life situations... help me out guys...!!!! i live in Georgia...so id like to find a school in the area....thanksWhat kind of martial art is good for real life situations?
    Jujitsu-because it is a very flexible art that adapts to any situation , not to mention its very effective in street combat, since most fights in the streets end up on the ground, make sure not to take brazilian jujitsu, its more sport like and not all that effective on the streets.What kind of martial art is good for real life situations?
    jujitsu.



    then



    shotokan Karate.
    Try Kung Fu.
    Judo and Akido are the best for true self-defense. Both teach you how to fight on the ground, which is eventually where evey fight ends up.
    having been in the arts for 45 years, I have found (for me), the best is Judo...
    Tekondo because they teach u what u do in any kind of situation. They even teach u to kick there hand and makes them drop there gun. They even teach u to flip people. Try it !
    tae kwon do is a great martial art for self defense (punching and kicking etc...)and hapkido is a great martial art if you wanna be really in close and do some serious damage (lots of pressure points, chokes nerves etc...) if you have any questions about these martial arts please feel free to email me @ tkdtiger7@gmail.com. i have been a tae kwon do and hapkido instructor for several years and i am a 3rd degree black belt and i will be happy to answer any questions you might have.
    I propose Aikido - a form of self defence martial arts. I learnt it while I was in university. It's not too taxing on the physical part but one does truly needs a lot of time to master it. My sensei was a small man but he throws the guys around like peanuts. The philosophy behind Aikido is also one of peace and non-violence. Essentially, Aikido is not confrontational. Instead of defending head on, the practitioner spins in circular direction to ward off the attacking force and then bring the party to the ground. Well, easier said than done I guess. Aikido trains the mind as well, teaching one to remain focused and anticipate attack directions in those undesirable circumstances.



    Words can't describe. Try it! :)
    my 9 mm...
    The only style that will work is the one that you are interested in, that you will invest the time and energy to learn to use effectively. All martial arts were created to defend people from attacks, but only if you are willing to put forth the effort to learn the techniques to the point where you can use them without having to think about using them. If you have to think and decide what to do, it is already too late, it has to be reflexive and instinctive. Every style will work, and no style will work, it all depends on the individual and the effort they put into it.
    Well you want to start looking for a school that is available, and near your home.



    ANY Martial Art is good, as Bruce Lee said: ';Foreign or not, if helps you look after yourself whenyour in a fight, then you should learn to use it. It doesn't matter at all where it comes from.'; that's a direct quote from himself, he also quoted that in Return of The Dragon in which he wrote, directed and starred in it. and Bruce studied most if not all the fighting disciplines at some point.



    It's bull s**t to say that their not good in real life situations; because they are or else they would not be around for as long as they have, they've been combat tested for hundreds of years.



    What you see in movies are just the flashy parts (and often choreograhed fights) of some of the martial arts; things that will make the movie seem more exciting for the moviegoer. the basics are all you need to use and not something flashy or complex in a fight.



    Anything you learn will help you defend yourself, so it doesn't matter what discipline you learn, nor is any one better than the other.



    You may want to take a discipline that works on your ';standing game'; Tae Kwon Do, Kung Fu, Karate, Krav Maga, and then later on learn a discipline that'll help you in your ';ground game'; Judo, Jiujitsu, Aikido, Hapkido.



    if you study hard enough you'll learn the techniques. just look for a school near you and take a few lessons, if you like it; stick with it, and don't mistake starting out as a white belt, that you'll be better than somebody you come up against on the street, it'll take time.
    Learning how to box is always a good idea. Judo is a great option too since it is cheap and you will get plenty of practice getting tossed. And if you're still in school...join the wrestling team.



    Aikido, etc. is great for personal growth, meditation and overall fitness, but is not that great for self-defense.



    and I'm sorry, but Japanese JJ won't teach you much about good ground fighting. Brazilian JJ is the way to go for that.



    Where in Georgia are you? I know a bunch of great gyms all over the country, so if you narrow down your location I can probably point you towards a good MMA, boxing, jujtisu or muay Thai school.
    MUAY BORAN.



    Muay Boran, which translates to ';Ancient Boxing';, is the predecessor to Muay Thai. The aim of Muay Boran is to help a warrior survive a battle after he has lost his weapons (until this time, he will use a style known as Krabi Krabong); its style is quite efficient, in that it maximizes the amount of damage that every blow can leverage, and effective, in that it can easily lead to the death or serious injury of the opponent. Most notably, Muay Boran emphasizes the usage of extremely powerful elbow and knee techniques, and combinations thereof, always thrown at full force and speed, with the intent to overcome one's adversary as quickly as possible, because another one might already be coming close or attacking. Muay Boran were categorized in to Muay Thasao (North), Muay Korat (Esarn or North-East), Muay Lobburee and Muay Chaiya. There was the phrase state that ';Powerful punch Korat, Wit Lobburee, Good Posture Chaiya, Faster Thasao'; (????????????? ?????????? ????????? ??????????????)



    Various techniques in Muay Boran are forbidden in present-day Muay Thai tournaments and competitions. Even in Thailand it is becoming increasingly difficult to find a school willing to teach it; they prefer to focus on ';modern'; Muay Thai, as this is more easily exploitable as a form of income. Today many schools who claim to offer Muay Boran just teach Muay Thai and sell it under the name of Muay Boran.



    Traditionally, Muay Boran was not well-known in the West outside a small circle of practitioners. The art was featured in the 2003 Thai film Ong Bak starring Tony Jaa. Tony Ja has learned Muay Korat (one of Muay Born).
    Bujinkan.
    most fights go to the ground, so take either judo or jiu jitsu. judo is better for take downs, jiu jitsu is better for submission.



    after learning some grappling. take some muay thai kick boxing.
    Amazing answers.

    FIrst TKD is a sport and will not provide you with real self-defense measures equal to those if you took Kung Fu, Krav Magra, etc. However, one poster quoted Bruce Lee stating any martial art is good. THis poster is correct.

    Second, Aikido is a great art, however, it takes years to become somewhat proficient. I have two arts, Hapkido and Aikido, and can tell you that Aikido is more difficult to learn though equally effective.

    Third, Ju Jitsu. Great...you learn how to fight on the ground, but of the several street fights I have been in not one ended on the ground. I was able to disable the people well before the fights would get to that point -- through controlled locks etc.

    I would suggest first finding an art that fits you and a school that teaches real self-defense (not a mcdojo). If you are strong, big, you can learn karate, or another art that uses a lot of strength. If not, then an art like hapkido with joint locks etc might be better. That said, I am 6'4 220 lbs and chose hapkido because of the ability to chose between fighting straight on strength or using locks, or joint breaks.

    Your school should be one that is reasonably priced (about $100 or so per month), requires you to train about 4x per week at about 1 to 2 hours per training (Ideally should train at least 8 hours per week to become effective). You preform 15 plus minutes of stretches, excercise, etc. The class should allow you to spar once you are ready. THe class should allow you to work with people of differant height, sex, weight. THe class should NOT make you stand in line behind people waiting to try a technique and then back in line to wait again (this is a waste of the training time). You should not have to pay for weapons classes.



    Again, consider Krav Magra, Hapkido, Karate, Kung Fu. Just a few thoughts.
    judo or akido
    judo is a great thing to know as it is a grappling art. Kempo is good for women as it involves a lot of arm and hand movements that can be applied up close. Stay away from the Jean-Claude VanDamme moves they take skill and space to do them.
    Krav Maga is the best for real life situations. If there is no Krav maga school near you then try Karate (Okinawan, not American or Korean).



    Look at this video of Krav Maga

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QXHSEOv78…



    All other arts are for sport or excercise.
    Choi Kwang Do

    How do you dance with a guy? and no grinding!!?

    i mean both ways. i have a prom for junior high coming up, and i can dance by myself, but i have no idea how to dance with a guy! (and i dont mean grinding!)

    so, two questions:

    1. how do you slow dance with a guy? like where to put your hands and stuff, and what do you even do with him?

    but the bigger one is...

    2. what if it's not a slow dance, but to a fast song? then how do you dance with him? do you just dance next to him, in front of him? do you dance lke you normally do by yourself? are you and the guy even supposed to be touching/putting ur hands on each other at all??



    please help, i don't want to look stupid!How do you dance with a guy? and no grinding!!?
    lol ';grind';



    bwhaha, oh sorry

    well um, let's see; for slow dancing you're supposed to let him put your hands around your waste %26amp;%26amp; your hands around his neck and sorta sway your body back %26amp; forth with the music; smile occasionally to let him know you're interested %26amp; just talk as the slow music runs in the background



    if it's fast dancing %26amp; music, you guys are not supposed to be touching each other, just move your body around his; dash your hair back %26amp; forth.

    move your hips around %26amp; bring up something to talk about





    if this helps, best answer? hahaHow do you dance with a guy? and no grinding!!?
    did you read my answer? or do you still want help?

    How do you dance with a guy? and no grinding!!?

    i mean both ways. i have a prom for junior high coming up, and i can dance by myself, but i have no idea how to dance with a guy! (and i dont mean grinding!)

    so, two questions:

    1. how do you slow dance with a guy? like where to put your hands and stuff, and what do you even do with him?

    but the bigger one is...

    2. what if it's not a slow dance, but to a fast song? then how do you dance with him? do you just dance next to him, in front of him? do you dance lke you normally do by yourself? are you and the guy even supposed to be touching/putting ur hands on each other at all??



    please help, i don't want to look stupid!How do you dance with a guy? and no grinding!!?
    1. you put your left arm on his shoulder, his right arm on your waist. he takes your right hand in yours. and you just go with the music...





    2. it really depends on the TYPE of music, y'know? hip hop, country, spanish, whatever you're into. its pretty much how you dance with yourself. depending on the song, you might be holding hands. just go with the flow! dont worry about looking stupid, you'll be fine :]

    How do you dance with a guy? and no grinding!!?

    i mean both ways. i have a prom for junior high coming up, and i can dance by myself, but i have no idea how to dance with a guy! (and i dont mean grinding!)

    so, two questions:

    1. how do you slow dance with a guy? like where to put your hands and stuff, and what do you even do with him?

    but the bigger one is...

    2. what if it's not a slow dance, but to a fast song? then how do you dance with him? do you just dance next to him, in front of him? do you dance lke you normally do by yourself? are you and the guy even supposed to be touching/putting ur hands on each other at all??



    please help, i don't want to look stupid!How do you dance with a guy? and no grinding!!?
    1. slow dance- you put your arms around his shoulders, (grab your wrists) and then kinda move with the beat or wherever he goes, also you can dance however far apart or close together you want, i recommend dancing close to the guy though

    2. fast dance- put your arms in the air but don't put them too straight or else it looks really weird. also, you can add a FEW jumps but not too many or it looks like your at a concert. also you can dance with your friends and do stupid dances. ooooooohhhh, and make sure you sing or lip sync with the songs that you know, everyone always does that. make sure you have fun!!!! also, i know that ur in middle school, but this is what my friends and i did a little bit of: the pop, lock and drop w/out the pop and lock. if you have no clue what it is, basically it is getting low, but in middle school you don't usually do it on a guy.



    good luck with your dance, if you have any questions then re-post on this postHow do you dance with a guy? and no grinding!!?
    Slow dancing is like hugging but swaying while you do it. And IDK about other types of fast dancing. lol I don't want this to sound wrong but If I'm dancing with a guy its usually grinding.
    dance with him like when u dance in a group with friends, but close to him, like 10 inch away and facing him, for slow dancing, put your arms around his shoulders hell hold on you your waiste and go in a clockwise circle very slowly over and over and over
    slow dancing:



    put your arms around his shoulders and he'll put his on your waist,

    and just kind of sway from side to side.



    fast dancing:

    I don't have much advice for that because I dance like a hoe, lol

    but just shake your *** and move your hips



    :]
    slow dance. . . .your hands around his neck. . his hands on your hips.. . you just basically shift your weight from foot to foot. i don't know about faster dances i jsut slow dance with guys
    grinding is the only way to dance with a guy unles he's gay

    dont be scared

    How do i turn a guy on at a dance?

    my winter formal is on sunday. and i really want to turn this guy on when grinding with him. any tips for me?

    also, ive only hooked up while slow dancing. is there a way to hookup when grinding?How do i turn a guy on at a dance?
    grab his dickHow do i turn a guy on at a dance?
    Um. keep close, and when you talk kinda touch his arm

    Keep smiling, and laugh at alot of stuff he says thats ';Funny'; ha

    When youre dancing slowly get closer, and closer, and closer, and closer.. til BAM!

    you're reaaaally close! :)
    Dance real close and whisper something nice in his ear like 'You look sexy' or 'I like to be in your arms', then nibble his earlobe. Hard like rottweiler.
    i refuse to answer your dumb *** question. if he doesn't get turn on by you grinding on him perhaps you need plastic surgery
    well it sounds like you already have the right idea .... just kiss him on the neck when you grinding he will get the idea
    grab his dick
    Ok...if grinding itself doesn't turn him on, you have a serious problem.
    Why would you want to?
    are you serious?

    Do guys like grinding? Is it better when the girl takes the lead?

    last night at my honmecoming my best friend and i were dancing. two of our guy friends were next to us just standing there cause they were too embarassed to dance (they said they dont know how) so i took the hand of one of them and turned my back to him giving him the signal to grind with me. and he did. but only for one song. just normal grinding..nothing slutty. so idk if he enjoyed it or not. :/ do guys like grinding? should i have let him make a move instead of me leading him into it? :(Do guys like grinding? Is it better when the girl takes the lead?
    i cant think of anything better.

    you are my dream girlDo guys like grinding? Is it better when the girl takes the lead?
    grinding is slutty...
    piggy girl
    Yes we do.
    guys like grinding, from your pic you dont look like an ugly girl but then again you cant be like 300 pounds trying to do that (harsh but true) if your fit, then this guy is messed.



    if he hasn't had a girl in a while that can be it to because he's on a cold streak and embarrassed to brake that. bottom line guys like it but if its with a ugly girl then no
    Its hot when girls want to grind. You should of done some sexy moves or let him touch you.

    Do guys like grinding or not? is it better when the girl takes the lead?

    last night at my honmecoming my best friend and i were dancing. two of our guy friends were next to us just standing there cause they were too embarassed to dance (they said they dont know how) so i took the hand of one of them and turned my back to him giving him the signal to grind with me. and he did. but only for one song. just normal grinding..nothing slutty. so idk if he enjoyed it or not. :/ do guys like grinding? should i have let him make a move instead of me leading him into it? :(Do guys like grinding or not? is it better when the girl takes the lead?
    When it comes to dancing, guys can be embarassed because if they are not a phenomal dancer they can feel stupid up there. For me, I like grinding (I dont a guy who doesn't) And it's better when a girl takes the lead as well. I'm sure he just felt out of place because he probably wasn't a strong dancer.Do guys like grinding or not? is it better when the girl takes the lead?
    all the preppy/ jocks at my school always do it. they do it to the girls and the guys lol. i think that's cool that a girl would take a lead on that.
    Believe me he loved it............all guys love grinding.........then you took the lead.....another big plus for a guy.........why it was only for one song........he may of got shy..........because we all know what grinding stands up!!!!
    no you guys are friends

    it shouldn't matter

    maybe its because you guys are

    friends that he felt weird

    he liked it, they all do.



    you need to ask yourself , was he getting a stiffy ?
    I love it. You should just start grinding into it
    hell yeah he loved it he just felt weaird
    You should be able to feel it if he really liked it.



    Yes, i like it.
    yes we love it.

    you did the right thing

    Are Grounding Blocks for a Tv Antenna Coax Cable necessary? What can happen if Coax is not grounded?

    I have a good idea how to ground the Antenna itself. I am going to run the copper #6 wire from the antenna mast to the ground spike below.

    Or I could run it around the house to th ouside spike already there.



    I am pretty sure my Tv antenna guy did not ground the coax with a grounding block.Are Grounding Blocks for a Tv Antenna Coax Cable necessary? What can happen if Coax is not grounded?
    You are correct, the mast needs to be grounded for lightning protection. Use a heavy gage copper wire and route it to a grounding rod. Make sure there are no sharp bends in the wire and keep it as short as practical.



    A grounding block is also a good idea to protect the input to the TV. They are inexpensive and should also be connected to a grounding rod via a wire with no sharp bends.



    Not grounding your antenna and down lead will invite lightning damage to your house and electronic equipment.

    How do I convince my homecoming date to grind?

    Ok so I asked a Friend (not girlfriend just friend) to homecoming. I had my one friend ask her if she was gonna grind with me at homecoming and she said I would only grind if I really liked the guy. Im afraid Im gonna look really gay if I dont grind so how can I get her to grind?How do I convince my homecoming date to grind?
    well...i had homecoming on friday and it was so much fun back to the point..well i didnt have a date just a few friends and we grinded...it just kinda happens..when she gets on the dance floor and she sees her friends having a grand old time grinding then she will come around trust me..i mean i am bi and all but i was scared to grind with my gf but once we got started i didnt want to leave...just wait and see what happens would be my best advise



    Hope i helped!!!



    tottals

    Advice for Grinding for a Tall Guy?

    I'm a sophomore who's around 6'2';. At parties when I'm grinding with girls, my legs end up straight killing me late at night, due to having to lean down so much. Is there any advice anybody can give me for how to make myself more comfortable? Finding different girls wouldn't be easy. Most of the girls I dance with are short.Advice for Grinding for a Tall Guy?
    I'm a sophomore that's 6'. I know exactly what your talking about, too. But there really isn't a good solution besides finding taller girls. Haha :DAdvice for Grinding for a Tall Guy?
    hmmm maybe if u work out ur legs u wont be as tired lol

    i remember when i lap dance guys and grind on them id be tired as fawk

    but then i took dance classes and we work out so now when i dance

    it dont hurt anymore(:

    if that dont work dance with tall chicks(:

    %26lt;33

    xoxo
  • dog
  • How should I dance at Homecoming tonight?

    My school just started a rule last year that we are not allowed to grind. I went to homecoming for the first time last year as a freshman, and I only went with my girl friends. We had no idea how to dance last year, and no guys wanted to dance with us, so we just kind of swayed our hips in a corner.

    This year however, we will probably get to dance with some of our guy friends. How do I dance with a guy friend without grinding or dancing like it's a serious slow song? How should I dance at Homecoming tonight?
    80's style...Go watch breakfast club and pick up some hot dance moves.

    I've heard of Dirty dancing or grinding. How to do it?

    Hi, I'm a 16 year old guy just moved here in nyc form another country

    I've been to a sweet 16 and seen dirty dancing between a girl and a guy, aka grinding

    could someone explain to me and how to do it, also how to get the girl to dance with u?I've heard of Dirty dancing or grinding. How to do it?
    push ur crouch up against a girls butt and grind.I've heard of Dirty dancing or grinding. How to do it?
    I'm. 13 and I grind all the time at parties.. U just kind of crouch a tiny bit and move side to side and rub ur crotch on a girls but, that's it and normally to get a girl to do it with u, u just go into a crowd of people grinding and do it to somebody u like
    try asking her to dance when a ';dirty'; song comes on... you should just move ur mid point in to her butt like not all dramatic, but with her... i hope this helps
    you kinda just do it



    i dont know how it starts, it kinda just happens, the girl starts grinding up on your crotch and you kinda just move the same way she does(its the closest thing to dry humping that you could get away with doing in front of your english teacher, lol)

    just do what comes naturally, cuz its not like formal dancing where there are moves or whatever, grinding is kinda just doing what YOU want to do
    you just ask the girl to dance. and she would just say yes. go to a wall and lean against it . she will grind her but on your pelvis and you move with her. =p heres a link to a video that will help you out.





    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lQLtUiiXd鈥?/a>
    just ask a girl simply and plainly ';you wanna dance?'; if she says yes, go for it, if not oh well. and for explaining how to... im white, so i cant really. hahaha
    get all dirty and sweaty and dance



    dirt + dance = DIRTy DANCING

    Can someone Help me with this Math Problem plz??!!?

    An Object is thrown straight up into the air. The Equation:



    s=s(t)= -16t^2 + 32t +48



    Gives the distance, S(in feet), the object is above the ground ';t'; seconds after it is thrown.



    1) How high above the ground is the object at t=3 seconds ??



    2)How long, in seconds, does it take for the ball to hit the ground ??







    Please guys help me ;)

    I'll appreciate that.

    ThanksCan someone Help me with this Math Problem plz??!!?
    I know what 36 x 4 is... 144!!!

    Why is it so hard to find a good/ nice Asian girl?

    I'm 21years old and its so hard for me to find a good girl! I look and search but my gosh, their all about partying and getting laid!



    Is it me or have all the Asian girls turn bad? Its either their slutty, Christianize but still slutty, or their married and slutty.



    I have been single for almost 5 years now and you know what, I cant find a good girl at all! I am so sick and tired of seeing asain girls getting drunk and hitting the down town clubs grinding on guys and knocking out in the parking lot! The scene is so old and I just want it to stop! but you know what, its not going to and it sucks!



    The only place I can think of meeting good girls are the ones out of my race but its hard for my family to accept that and its also hard for me too becasue I wouldnt know how to talk or start a conversation with one who is not the same color as I am. Its hard!



    so wtf am I suppose to do? I'm lonely here and my good looks are getting fat! haha



    Its not that I want to get married or have kids but to have a girlfriend who wouldnt want to waste money on alcohol and at the clubs (meaning, I want someone who I can trust! so many girls just wanna have fun!)





    help me yahoo people.



    :(Why is it so hard to find a good/ nice Asian girl?
    Have you tried a mail order girl from Asia,

    How do you dance @ school dances? help plz.. i suck!?

    HAHA this is SUCH a stuupid question, i know.

    but i am going to a school dance in like 10 days, and i CANT. DANCE.

    ive like watched myself in the mirror and put on some ';dancing music';, but i look like such an idiot. im nervous cause i went to one of these dances a few months ago, and its all girls.. like, grinding with guys and stuff. i want to learn how to do that cause someone might ask me to!?

    i know how to slow dance DUH, but i mean for like ';low'; and ';pop lock n drop it';.. songs like that. help please! all my other friends can dance, and i want to be able to without looking like a complete idiot.

    i start to dance, then i feel like everyone is watching me or laughing at me, so i stop and laugh at myself. i kinda of.. jokingly dance.. its hard to explain. i dont think ive every actually DANCED at a school dance. i only sortof sway to the music.. :(

    by the way im 13. i dont know how that will help you though...

    if you have any tips ANSWER PLZ!

    thankkkkkkkssssssssss:):)How do you dance @ school dances? help plz.. i suck!?
    First..relax. lol. You shouldnt worry about other people watching you, because most likely they're not...i mean unless your wearing something ridiculous. =] anyways, I think you should ask one of your closest friends to help you. Maybe they can show you a couple of things. The only other thing I can say is just listen to the music and the beat. Move your body to it. Oh and I dont think you wanna be grinding on people too much. Some people find that really unnattractive....unless your comfortable doing that.

    hope this helpsHow do you dance @ school dances? help plz.. i suck!?
    follow ur friends ask them if they can *** over a couple days b4 the dance and teach u sum mooves watch so you think you can dance vids on youtube also for hip hop they teach lots of cool moves
    practice makes perfect...but as far as dancing, there's no such thing

    watch the people around you...are they getting low and bending their knees? are they putting their arms up in the air? shakin it?

    really, it's like a game of simon says...one person does something, and the rest follow or do something that was done before.

    TIPS: keep moving...especially your hips.

    HAVE FUN! it's not like you'll be stoned if you don't dance like everyone else! find what's fun and do it!



    If all else fails, look on youtube for dance moves.

    good luck, and have fun!
    Hah it's not a stupid question!



    It's perfectly reasonable. I have absolutely no rhythm and I still dance anyways. You really just have to relax and move with the beat and you don't need to do anything too crazy and amazing just kind of move and sway with the music and its okay to be a little silly and just dance around because no one will laugh at you and even if they do who cares its just you having fun. Maybe ask your Mom how she dances or if she knows any cool dance moves from when she was your age. You never know!



    Best of luck!
    practice practice practice.

    trust me, im in the same boat as u. ASK UR FRIENDS. this helps, i shud no ive done it. just b like, teach me to grind. laugh about it later. but grinding is basically moving ur hips front and bak in smooth but quick motions. not quick like, super speedy, like not slow. also like, move your hand and arms like, one hand behind ur neck and one on ur leg while looking bak over your shoulder. very sexy =]
    just feel the beat of the music and watch the people around you! have fun!!! :)

    I feel like my sister changed a lot and turned into someone different..help?

    i'm 15 and shes 18. she was always just comcentrated on her studies. that was the only thing on her mind. when she started hs, she started to hang out w/ these girls that were a bit gangster. not bad to the extreme, but yeah. my sister knows how to control herself. slowly during the years, i saw her change and turn into a diff. person. its like i dont know her anymore. she listens to music and grinds with guys at parties...its so weird cause i wouldve never thought she will be doing those things..i dont like those things at all and i want to devote myself to my studies during hs but when im around her, i feel like a nerd and shes a little critical..i looked up to her but now its a lil diff.she had so much motivation and dedication to her school work until she met those friends...shes in college now. i mean, shes still dedicated but still..a little diff.. =/I feel like my sister changed a lot and turned into someone different..help?
    You both are growing up into individuals now. Your sister is discovering or rather experimenting with what she thinks she likes and dislikes.



    You're not losing her. You'll always be her sister and her confidant. Your age differences are not that big. Sometimes she wants some space to breathe. To think. To do things her way.



    She and you both have sense and a good head on each of your shoulders. You say she is dedicated. She knows what she is doing. So, just be there when and if she asks for you.



    You know, sometimes, a little talking and reasoning always helps. tell her how you feel if thing really get worse. compromise certain situations. Good Luck!I feel like my sister changed a lot and turned into someone different..help?
    Pray for her...talk to her about the way you feel. Discuss it with your family...and pray.....and of course, hope
    High school changes everyone, it is where you grow into your own, or sometimes what the people around you want you to be. Don't worry, keep your head strait on your shoulders. Just because she doesn't study 24/7 doesn't mean she isn't the same person inside. Sometimes people just want to fit in they would do anything. Hey, look at it this way, she got into college- that must mean something.
    she's your sister you should be able to talk about anything.. let her know how you feel before you never get the chance..

    also she's growing up and those sort of behaviors are .. well normal fo a 18 yr old.. so no big worries there.. she is in college so that's a good thing and it shows that she still got a head on her shoulder.. trust if she didn't care about education she wouldn't be there...



    good luck

    HOW DO U GET ASKED TO GRIND?

    Ok so i am going to a dance and my friend who has been to these dances b4 says people grind and dance regular. SO..how do u know if a guy wants to grind or just dance? Will he say ';hey wanna grind on me?'; orr what?? Alsso is it ok to grind with Others if your going out with someone im not right now but just 4 the future!HOW DO U GET ASKED TO GRIND?
    He doesnt ask you to grind he'll ask you to dance and maybe when you start dancing he'll start to grind up on you.HOW DO U GET ASKED TO GRIND?
    sorry butt i wont know what to say unless im there all guys\girls are diff
    I don't ask. I just walk up to them in the club and start grinding. If you ask, then people thing you are a lame-o.
    Well I haven't been to a dance in a while, but in my day we just did it. If the girl didn't like it she'd just walk away and you'd roll up on someone else and try again. I can't imagine saying to a girl ';Hello there, would you like to grind?';
    well it just kinda happens. I grinded with someone else when i was going out with someone. b/c he wasnt there
    usually if a guy wants you to grind on them they walk up behind You so that you butt is positioned on their crotch or pull you really close so it kinda looks like your legs are interlocked. i don't think anyone asks if you wanna grind on them
    We used to use that word back in the day, but it means the same slow dancing and going down, to your favorite music. It should be done with your partner, because if you have a guy and do this with someone else, I got a feeling you will be in trouble.
    u just ask to dance if anything
    well first of all if you grind at a dance it means you are pretty serious, and there are different ways that a guy will ask u my bf and i were slow dancing and the he was holding me around the waist and it just happened that i started grinding. My friend on the other hand her bf ask her if she wanted to grind in a semi-sexy way
    You sound pretty young..if a guy wants to grind, he'll grind, won't bother asking... It's ok to grind with someone if you have a boyfriend but that's as far as it should go, and you don't have to grind with a guy, do it with your friend! You'll be the center of attention. Grind safely! :D
    you dont get asked...guys just come up behind you and start grinding on you, if you dont wanna grind with him than just go somewhere else with your friends
    nobody is going to ask to grin it kind of just happens and if ur with someone and u dance with some one eles it all depends how far u 2 go with grinding .....

    Sorry pats fans?

    ur team played all last place teams all year except for the cowboys and the colts there all broke down though and the steelers the rest of the teams are all last place so how can u say u have the greatest team of all time they are good but they did not play anyone i would say that with a schedule like that i could go undeated with 10 other people i would not brag if i were u guys i would hide my face in the ground sorry guys it had to be saidSorry pats fans?
    Sun 9/9 at NY Jets W 38-14 //////////////3-9 next to last

    Sun 9/16 San Diego W 38-14 ///////7-5 rest are 4-8

    Sun 9/23 Buffalo W 38-7//////6-6 in pats div at 2nd

    Mon 10/1 at Cincinnati W 34-13 ////4-8 theres a winner

    Sun 10/7 Cleveland W 34-17 ////7-5 behind steelers, purty

    Sun 10/14 at Dallas W 48-27 ////one top ranked

    Sun 10/21 at Miami W 49-28 ////0-12 lets bragg

    Sun 10/28 Washington W 52-7 ////6-7 next to last

    Sun 11/4 at Indianapolis W 24-20 //// leader #2

    bye

    Sun 11/18 at Buffalo W 56-10 /////6-6 next under pats

    Sun 11/25 Philadelphia W 31-28 ///5-7 last again

    Mon 12/3 at Baltimore W 27-24/////4-8 last again

    Sun 12/9 Pittsburgh 4:15 pm /////9-3 thats 4 teams

    Sun 12/16 NY Jets 1:00 pm ///3-9 next to last

    Sun 12/23 Miami 1:00 pm /// again lets bragg

    Sat 12/29 at NY Giants 8:15 pm ////8-4 2nd to dallas

    well that about sums it up pats played 4 teams thats decent

    , you sir have made a great point, pats may be winning but they are sure scheduled to win!!!!!! like you said sure isnt worth bragging about!!!LOLSorry pats fans?
    thank you! at least some1 agrees with me, the steelers will give them a good smacking
    Rambling, but true.
    Their coach is a cheating miserable excuse for a human being. I doubt even Pats fans would speak to the guy if they saw him on the street. If they did, the response would probably be less than warm. The NFL's script this year obviously calls for an undefeated Patriot season. It's a fitting climax to their recent Superbowl ';victories.'; I think I'll start getting more into hockey. It hasn't become completely corrupt yet as far as I can see.
    How is it then, that the Pats have a tougher Strength of Schedule rating?



    And how'd that Jets game go for you? hahahahaaha!



    Your English and grammar are clear indicators of your intelligence.
    Whatever...we'll see Sunday!
    Fool.... they have a harder schedule than most teams.

    They played the best team in the nfc on the road (cowboys and thrashed them by 21 pts.) They beat the 2nd best afc team on the road. They beat the chargers by 24 pts. (they are 7-5). they beat the skins by 45. They have the best qb of all time by the time he retires on his team and they are 12-0.

    So yea they look like the best team of all time. And you said they faced the colts banged up? THEY FACED THEM WITH DWIGHT FREENEY!!!!



    HAHAAHAH GO PATS!
    Get your stats straight, the also beat the Charges and the Browns, who are playoff teams and the Redskins who have a shot at the playoffs, also if the Bills didnt have to play the Pats twice they would be in the hunt. Now tell me what team has played a harder schedule than the pats include the fact they are also going to play the Steelers and Giants, also two playoff teams. I love the fact all you people hate on the Patriots, but face it they are as good as the Packers of the 60's, Steelers of the 70's, 49er's of the 80's and Cowboys of the 90's, or even better. Enjoy them winning their 4th Super Bowl of the decade
    andy p ur an idiot they hav played the easiest teams the 85 bears were a lot better then them the 85 dolphins were better than them the 72 dolphins were better then them



    ps. they wont beat the dolphins record they will lose eventually i hope the dolphins beat them
    Arizona Cardinals and New York Jets enough said.
    I hate the Patriots, and Tom Brady. I think he is overrated. Let them play my team and I'll guarantee a Champ Bailey interception, and a Broncos win.





    They are going to lose to the Steelers!!!!
    I'd hide my face if I posted something like you did.



    Check your opinions versus facts and try again.
    Living in the Detroit I have had to adopt another pro team to keep from totally losing it. I lived in Pittsburgh for a few years %26amp; know the rabid fan base there. Also being a UM fan I have watched Tom Brady for years. He will be the difference. Love or hate him he gets it done.
    Strength of schedule bro do some research before you cry on yahoo answers



    3. If New England finishes the season with 12 or more wins this year then they really will have accomplished something. They face a tough .535 schedule this season, which is the third hardest. On paper they are better than last year, but those improvements had better translate to reality, because they face a huge jump up from the .473 schedule against which they were 12-4 (10-6 ATS) last year. That is tied with division-mates Buffalo for the biggest increase of difficulty in the league.
    Philly and the Ravens are all about defense. Their offense is usually very lackluster. The Patriots just gave up big plays. Neither will make the playoffs. The Colts and Cowboys really are the only true good teams that they have played up until today. You can't use the Bills, some of their wins are over the other crappy teams in the AFC North like the Jets and Dolphins! Put them in the freaking AFC South and see what happens. I doubt they'd be 12-0 right now, especially since they apparently can't stop the run, and what does a team like Jacksonville do? RUN! The Chargers were TERRIBLE at the beginning of the year and also play in a weak conference with the Raiders, Chiefs, and Denver! Which of those teams are good this year? NONE, exactly. The Patriots aren't as good as they are said to be, at least I don't think. They aren't bad, but they aren't the greatest team of all time or any o that. They would have gotten dominated if they were back in the days when the league was truly physical.
    Could you translate that to English



    ur.... do you mean your?

    u ... do you mean you?





    I'm sorry that the Patriots beat your team, maybe you'll get over it in time.



    Go Patriots... 12-0 !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
    How true! As I said they play in the weakest division in the league! And as for the Chargers wow they are a juggernaut this year aren't they! OK the Raven,Eagles and Redskins are how good? The have played only 2 decent teams in the Boys and Colts that's it! And once again that is one tough division they are in. Or since they like to bring up the jets to us well at least we were facing their 1st string players not the 2nd string QB's .



    And Please stop thinking they are as good as some of those teams in the past! That is laughable! Half the 70's Steelers are in the HOF! Who is making it from this squad? Brady maybe Moss and that's it! They are no where near as good as those teams! Also let's point to expansion which spreads out the player quality! The teams back then had much better squads because they had more concentrated talent!
    BUT, they have had some comp. u must agree.
    this question underscores how stupid people are, makes me sad... first of all the questioner is a moron, clearly... but then u have idiots agreeing lol...



    let's see, they have played all the division winners from last year's afc, including the chargers, indy in indy, and baltimore in baltimore, and they had to play dallas in dallas... oh, they havent played anyone, gee, u're right!! uhhh huh huh huh...



    did it ever occur to people that in part the pats opponents' records are damaged by having had to play the pats? well of course, not, that is having to think a beyond the obvious, i shouldnt expect that ...



    so if the pats havent played ';anyone';, who has played ';someone'; this year? there are only 4 teams with stand out records and the pats are one of them and they played 2 of the other 3... other than that everyone else in the league has an average or poor record... when u say the pats havent played anyone, who else do u think they need to play? GB is the only good record team they havent played, and since they thrashed dallas in dallas and GB failed in dallas, the pats dont really need to play GB to prove anything...
    Look @ the PF and PA... its a huge margin. Hence everyone complaining they are ';running up the score';. If they didnt play balls out like that, then everyone would say they suck because they dont score points. I should also point out 3 things.



    1. The miami dolphins played all shitty teams when they went undefeated.



    2. The pats schedule strength is based off of how they performed last season, meaning teams they are facing this year are supposed to be good. Who would have thought the chargers would suck and the dolphins would tank all season?



    3. Apology accepted. The pats are undefeated, so until they lose pats fans should hold thier heads high. No team has been better than them on any sunday yet this year. Something to be proud of.





    p.s. 2/3 the world is covered by water.. the rest is covered by Asante Samuel
    I love how you can just ignore the fact that they beat two of the best teams in the league (Cowboys and Colts). And most of these teams that you say are no good, they didn't just BEAT. They destroyed them.



    They beat the Cowboys (#2), the Colts (#3) The Chargers (#9), the Browns (#11), the Bills (#15), the Redskins were ranked in the top 10 when the Patriots beat them. How can you say they're beating last place teams? Yeah, the Dolphins and Jets are in their division, and they suck, but your division schedule is only 6 of your 16 games. Next time you want to bash someone, at least try to get your facts straight. It would give you so much more credibility than just crying like a baby who doesn't get what he wants.



    The Pats may or may not beat the Steelers this week. That's why they pay the game. Any given team on any given Sunday. the Ravens and Eagles both played well above the level they've played all season, and they almost pulled it off. Funny thing is, if they played like that against everyone, they'd both be headed for the playoffs.
    Keep trying to convince yourself the Pats haven't played anybody...Lets see...Chargers, Browns, Cowboys, Colts, Ravens, Eagles, Redskins...and will play the Steelers and Giants...



    All you have to know is 13-0